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Im getting married in 5 days and my bride turns 21 in 2 days
Any advice?
Any advice?
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Any advice?
The best advice I got was from my grandfather. I was about to walk down the aisle and mentioned I was pretty nervous. He said, “Cheer up boy, there are worse days coming.”Im getting married in 5 days and my bride turns 21 in 2 days
Any advice?
Im getting married in 5 days and my bride turns 21 in 2 days
Any advice?
Im getting married in 5 days and my bride turns 21 in 2 days
Any advice?
I will give you my standard advice I give every newly married groom, usually in the reception line.Im getting married in 5 days and my bride turns 21 in 2 days
Any advice?
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Just kidding.
Congratulations !
Just know that being that young, the odds are stacked against you. You both have still some growing up to do. Make sure to grow up together and not apart.
Oh, and never go to bed angry.
I’m counting on seeing some photos from this special day!Im about to turn 23, I told her we are lucky because most people dont find the love of their lives for years.
FWIW, I got married at 21, and my wife was 22. Here we are, 38 years later, still having the time of our lives. Congratulations! The secret? Put the rest of your family above yourself. The catch is, you ALL have to do that.
I was 22 and my wife had just turned 20. 38th Anniversary is next week. So many things I’ve learned since then. But mainly being committed to making your marriage work for you both is the secret. And as MuseChaser put it, you ALL have to do that.FWIW, I got married at 21, and my wife was 22. Here we are, 38 years later, still having the time of our lives. Congratulations! The secret? Put the rest of your family above yourself. The catch is, you ALL have to do that.
But mainly being committed to making your marriage work for you both is the secret.
If they tell you it’s easy they’re naive or selling something. But it’s worth it.I've always believed that nobody ever said it would be easy.
We're coming up on our 34th anniversary next month.
Im getting married in 5 days and my bride turns 21 in 2 days
Any advice?
Oh come on, that’s a ridiculous comment!I just can't see this ending well for you.
Oh come on, that’s a ridiculous comment!
Could be. Sometimes it’s hard for me to decipher what’s a joke and what isn’t thru text based communication - and without the emoticons.I interpreted that as jokingly referencing the fact that the best marriages end in death.
I interpreted that as jokingly referencing the fact that the best marriages end in death.
1) When you are wrong, immediately apologize. When you are right, immediately apologize. Love means always having to say you're sorry.
2) At the wedding reception, do not offer this toast: "To our wives and our sweethearts - may they never meet."
3) Never buy her a horse (trust me).
Ryanb is sometimes a bit humor impaired. But we love him anyway and keep hoping for a medical breakthrough.
3. …….damnit!!
25 years in November
No thanks...4 is enough.
I wish the lad well!
I bought her a beta fish lolYou have my sympathies, sir. A horse is the most efficient creature God ever made for converting money into manure. If @Rebel Lord is smart, his betrothed prefers goldfish.....
Ever wonder why husbands die first.???
Because they want to..!!!
My first name is reasonably common, unisex, but can be spelled several different ways.
When I have to give my name to the fast food cashier, I use Tom. It's not my name but it's one syllable and easy for them to punch into the register. You ever have the fast food cashier ask you how to spell your name, like it friggin matters that Chick-fil-A has the spelling correct?
Funny thing with that saying. I used to not like it and take it pessimistically, more as the husbands being sick of being nagged. Now I think of it differently (although it's still morbid) taking it more as husbands not wanting to go on without their wife.
If my wife goes first, I'll be devastated
If they tell you it’s easy they’re naive or selling something. But it’s worth it.
Im getting married in 5 days and my bride turns 21 in 2 days
Any advice?
Everybody's experience is different. I actually think marriage has been easy, and nothing but enjoyable. We are both easy going folks, but more importantly, we align on all major things like God, family, money management, education, politics, etc. We don't sweat the small stuff and trust each other absolutely. I'm super lucky, and I think it must be rare.
Pragmatic advice for a newbie: JOINT BANK ACCOUNT
Learn to manage your money together. You both need to think of each others' earnings as OUR money, not his and hers, and decide how to spend it together.
Some will disagree. That's fine. Everybody does things differently, but financial issues end a lot of marriages, and separate money can promote disunity, which is the opposite of marriage.
I would also suggest letting God be part of your lives together, pray together, and study the Bible together if you are inclined, but I understand that can be a very off-putting subject these days and on this medium. I'll leave it at that, and hope nobody flips their lid about it.
Im getting married in 5 days and my bride turns 21 in 2 days
Any advice?
Still trying to figure out what we are going to do with our money. She is very conservative with money and she’s been on me to sit down with her and make a budget.