If they can. When I was looking at the KIA Nero plug-in, the dealership I'd usually use told me that they didn't stock the EV's or plug-ins because they lacked adequate electric service to charge them. They gave me the names of several other dealerships. It seemed kind of strange to me, but it's hard to come up with a reason why they'd turn away the business. Maybe the local feed is near its limit and the power company won't upgrade them.
Hmmm. I don't buy that excuse - They don't take anything to charge unless you're driving them, and test drives aren't going to put a lot of miles on. I would think that a dealership could easily get away with simple L1 charging (plugging into a standard outlet) - That adds around 4 miles of range per hour it's plugged in, so easily 50 miles/day just while the dealership is closed. Shut the interior lights off and you've shed enough load to plug in the car.
More likely, that's a convenient excuse for not selling EVs because they know that they won't make nearly the amount of maintenance dollars after the sale with an EV. This sort of thing is one of the big things holding back EV adoption: Dealers don't want to spend extra money to teach their salespeople how to sell them and send their techs to training to learn how to service them, when they'll end up making less money over the life of the car because of the drastically reduced maintenance.
On a related note, I have a friend with a plug-in hybrid who's been crying crocodile tears lately because most of the free charging stations she used to use are no longer free. I find that more than a bit odd. The thought of charging for free never would have occurred to me unless it were built into the sale price of the car. Maybe it makes sense in that subculture, but to me it seems bizarre.
Most of the plug-in hybrids, because they have the gas engine to back up the battery, have lower-power onboard chargers. Both my Fusion Energi and my Volt, for example, have 3.3kW chargers. My BMW i3 (BEV), on the other hand, had a 9.6kW charger.
When it comes to charging stations, in many places they're billed by the hour, not by energy used (kilowatt-hours). Here in Wisconsin, for example, under current law you can't sell power by the kWh unless you're a utility that's overseen by the Public Service Commission, so ALL EV charging stations are billed by the hour.
When you put those two together, it means that the cost per kilowatt hour to charge your plug-in hybrid is astronomical. Even the ones that charge $1/hr, that comes to 30 cents/kWh, over 2.5x the rate I pay at home. And, at that rate, you might as well just buy and burn gasoline. On the Volt, for example, 30 cents/kWh is about equivalent to $3.89/gal gas, which is about $1/gal higher than the pump prices are here right now.
And, if her experience has been anything like mine... Well, you just HATE when your engine kicks on, because you've gotten used to the smooth, quiet experience of electric driving. So, that means maybe those free charging stations going away means she's driving with the engine running more frequently than before.
Now, if she was just freeloading... Well, maybe she needs to realize that the 43 cents per hour she was saving probably aren't worth crying over.