Ron, is this remark accurate? Seems I know more people that have died in crashes than car wrecks but ...... maybe that's my answer right there?
Not my zone of expertise, but: I've heard the fatality rate per 100,000 miles is about four times higher for GA than for driving. Except for motorcycles...these have about the same rate as GA.
GA is never going to get its accident rate as low as driving, given the current US automobile infrastructure and driver behavior (I'm referring to the fact that MOST drivers, for instance, stop at red lights). Flying requires a better sense of judgement (weather, etc.) and the consequences of minor problems is more severe (mechanical failures, running out of fuel, etc.).
The difference of course, is that pilots are the masters of their fates. All but very few accidents depend solely on the actions of one pilot or the condition of one plane.
You can fly from Seattle to Oshkosh and arrive safely if you ensure the plane is in good shape, get proper training, and make the right decisions on the way. You can drive from Seattle to Oshkosh with a car in good shape and skills at the max, but you're STILL vulnerable to the actions of the thousands of other drivers and cars you'll pass along the way.
Pilots are ever-vunerable to the "golden B-B", but drivers have to contend with thousands of rusty pickups with "Bubba" painted on the tailgate and empty beer cans rolling around in the bed.
Metaphorically speaking, of course.... but I'd rather risk the B-B than Bubba.
Ron Wanttaja