Rational Recovery said:
I think something like total abstinence from alcohol for forever is a pretty serious lifestyle change that it's impossible to have a one size fits all program for something like this
First I don't think this says you were abstinent. It stops just short. Someone who's really abstinent says, "I'm coming up on my two year abstinece anniversary date".....or the like. It's a First person and affirmative statement.
yes I have been abstinent as I explained in my original post
No, you did not. See above.
...and that I am coming up on the 2 year mark of zero alcohol consumption.
Now you're talking....
I have gotten a few urine tests over the last ~1.5 years. About 3 or 4 total.
....Which leaves lots of gaps. Were they at least ethyl glucuronides? (a test whcih covers eight day spans?)
My abstinence is acknowledged by the FAA
Do you have such a letter? I've never seen such. WE call it a letter of eligibility, and if you had it you would not be posting here.
...and a AME I have been talking too, meaning everyone believes that I have not been drinking at all, the difficulty lays in my interest in doing an alternative to the 12 step program. I am interested in getting into the air utilizing RR as an alternative for airmen with a history of alcohol abuse.
I suppose I can get more info from the AME I have been talking too than I can from on here. Although this is somewhat helpful as well. Now that I am getting closer to the 2 year mark I will get urine tests monthly and possibly that AME can start to do random calls for me.
I am not going to see a HIMS sponsor to try and grab a carrot of a stick, however, if I speak to one first and they are open minded about alternative options to total abstinence I would meet with them.
IF you can demonstrate 2 years of abstinence convincingly, it won't matter whether you use rational, or 12 steps or behavior mod. They just want some demonstrable recovery activity. For Third class, after two years, several testimonials as to steady emplyment, lack of absenteeism, reliability from an employer, identible community leaders, an AME who knows you personally outside the office, helps a lot. NONE of that matters for second or first class. Liver enzyme tests and some components of the blood count help, but nothing really counts like random urines, MONTHLY without break.
But your problem is that you didn't carefully plan the 2 years. 2 years of randoms would have been only $580 a year. So you have to devise something that the agency is going to consider credible. IF the ageny is convinced that you have been abstinent, then you can use Rational Recovery, Behavior Mod, or anything reasonable.
If you have to have urine monitoring (because you weren't convincing), the ONLY AMEs that can sponsor you are HIMS certified. There are 100 of us. Your supportive AME friend, I hope he's got HIMS certification, because he's trying to do the right thing... The special issuance is issued BY NAME to the AME and he is obliged to see you often and report on you, and you are obliged to comply with whatever was negotiated, e.g, occasional randoms, interviews with a counselor, or an internist's quarterly report(s).
But I don't see why you're so torqued about HIMS. It's pretty obvious you've never sat down and spoken to a HIMS AME. I have a lotta guys on very different plans. It's all about what the agency will buy, and the credibility of the sponsor....who if I forgot to say it, HAS to be a HIMS certified AME. If you email me his name, I'll tell you if he's on the list. Most of us have met each other. In fact on Sept 9 we're all spending 3 days in Denver....
We don't have to use HIMS per se. But all the sponsorship assests at the agency, including the permitted AMEs have been put through HIMS certification.
I have a 135 guy who is non-HIMS but sponsored by.....a HIMS AME (which would be me). His company doesn't have HIMS. This airman just has a very understanding, PRINCE of a boss.
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Now to change to the other topic: You appear still defiant, right in your first comment above, borne of ignorance (it is NOT one size fits all), and so in essence, I have to doubt your assertion about abstinence. This is going to be a hard sell to the Agency. Dr. W.M is a hard sell with guy with your attitude.
Much more productive would be, "what do I now need to do......", which is a problem solving mentality, as opposed to a "railing" kind of mentality. WE can tell that sort of stuff in the first three lines of a personal statement. The attitude that doesn't get a special issuance, devolves around, "Hey, I can drink and stay outta trouble". Why? Because you didn't do that, once already.
The problem solving mentality would be, "OK, I messed up. What do I need to do to get a second chance?" You're not near a second chance with that attitude.
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Maybe you don't understand, that the Federal Air Surgeon and the Federal Psychiatrist, will enforce abstinence as a condition of recertification forever for upperclass, and for TWO demonstrated years, for third class.
I am done here, and that's a fact.