hindsight2020
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I lived in a cube farm for a few years before I went off to do this pilot stuff, and you're right - I doubt I'd go back unless *all* of my flying options were exhausted. And why is that? It's because I enjoy the work - really enjoy it. Is it routine? Absolutely. But just like you've called me out for having my opinion skewed by being a DINK (rightly so), the same goes for you when you tell people the job is boring, or isn't creative or inspiring - you're coming at it from the POV of a guy that flies f***ing fighters for a living.
Airline flying won't replace the enjoyment of buzzing around in a GA airplane, and it won't scratch the intellectual itch of someone that was originally of the mind to go into engineering or some other STEM career - but it doesn't have to. What it does is give me the time off and cash flow to satisfy those desires independently. And even when I'm strapped into my work airplane, I'm still having a good time.
Fair enough. I wasn't trying to be purposely deprecating of your job at all; my apologies if I did nonetheless. I made that comment in the specific context of a cube dwelling airline aspirant and the scenario I posed with that comment, where the industry would take a downturn. My point there was that since many argue the dissatisfaction of their work ad nauseam, but tend to minimize their monetary motivations (Americans tend to feign bashfulness about money...) I was trying to bring to light the idea that to an outsider, everything looks novel. Once on the inside and cured from that dopamine high, you better have stronger motivations than "money and time off", because those come and go in the industry. I meant it as a cautionary tale for the optimism biased in the crowd.
Also remember, I have 1,100 hours of flying a /heavy suffix airplane, oceanic time as well. So I'm not ignorant to the trappings of heavy flying routine. And it's not an exaggeration that it almost cured me from professional flying; I almost separated the military over it, only to find salvation in the training command LOL. But your overarching point is noted. My perspective is biased by my own preferences. Again apologies for over-generalizing.
Talking about pax 121. I don't think it's all drudgery. Flying outfits back home like Cape Air, shuffling drunken tourists back and forth from SJU to the Lesser Antilles would be a hell of a retirement gig for me, especially if I could do it only seasonally and still get to live CONUS part year, for the sake of the wife's career. Alas, it doesn't pay ssssssshhh--. I would also be contributing to the industry problem, by accepting jobs that undercut the livelihood of those behind me in the career ladder who would go without decent retirement, healthcare coverage or bona fide savings-capable wages of consequence. Which is why my own part 91 flying becomes ever more important in my life as I reach a point where flying for money will no longer be financially viable for me. But I digress.
As someone who’s about 30 months out from my first retirement and looking for my second career, my wife and I are having the hardest time seeing past the pretty significant amount of time away from home. I saw an AA FO’s schedule the other day (been there about 18 months) and it’s basically 3-4 days on 3-4 days off (mostly working weekends). I think I read about an average of 16-18 working days per month (effectively away from home the entire time). Sure that’s more time off than many full time jobs, when you’re off, but that’s also a lot of time away from home when you’re on the schedule. For him, if he has kids, forget about spending any time with them unless he home schools them. And if he has to commute too, fuggghedaboutit! I know the pay is great, especially at the majors, but we’re spending a lot of time exploring options that would allow me to continue to fly as a second career, without being gone so much. Not saying I won’t attempt transition to the airlines, just not sold that that’s what’s best for my family yet. Good luck to you though!
Interesting, that's not the math my family came to when we asked the same question. When we sat down and did that math (before my wife got sick that is, and all this became academic anyways), the airlines came way ahead on that front, as @Hacker has alluded to in his reply to you.
Specifically, I told my wife: "you have two options, both mean I'm out of this bed 180 nights in the preceding 12 months. You can either serve this 3-on 4-off, or 219-on [joke about mil deployments overrunning without credit]". I let her answer first, then I told her my vote. She picked the same as I did, which I guess is why we're still married (life can feel a bit russian roulette at times LOL). At any rate, the answer was curtain #1.
Of course, the caveats apply of relocating within driving distance to a domicile. We would much prefer for me to have the ability to bounce back to the house on the fourth day, than be gone an entire half year, especially with the kid's age. Extended absences like that are life altering events for us, and I still would have 10 years of that in the CAF. The airlines would require stints that represent nothing more than a XC weekend for me, and we could swing that. Deployments have always been ball crushers for my family life, which is why I was going to separate (before a career AETC appointment salvaged my military tenure). I'm not even going to address @Hackers additional comments about life in garrison; he did a complete enough job of what is describing the water for us mil types already.
The other thing, and again Lord knows I'm not the airline cheerledader of choice on here LOL, is that the airline lifestyle can be molded to fit a variance of family circumstances. The military basically offered me the line the current SECDEF is proffering: "if you can't deploy at will, I want you out of my military". Great job Maddog, good luck with retention by treating everybody like a childless Marine 18 yo enlisted recruit. That'll do great things for your middle management and tactical expert technicians. With the airlines, if it came down to getting kicked out of the military, we could in theory move close enough to a domicile where I could drive to it, and we could still see each other and be part of my son's upbringing until the schedule would allow weekends in my "BES" [base equipment seat, aka relative seniority]. And again, this is coming from someone with zero intentions of going airlines until I have a shot at an AD retirement check in 9 years.
I have heard other mil folk just like you, suggest deployments and 3/4 year long absences from their family be more favorable than the shuttle schedule of the airlines. It simply rings completely foreign to my family. I attribute much of that to the degree to which certain spouses prefer that level of absence from their mate, the age of the children, and also the degree to which they have other family support structures that effectively ameliorate the absence of the money maker in the physical home. A family with a lot of grandparents and uncles around is much better poised to deploy without losing sleep over it than my family of 3 with dead grandparents, the other 2 OCONUS without electricity, with a cohort of aunts one state away I wouldn't trust my son's care for one second, let alone 6 months in the event my wife falling ill. No one size fits all.
To be fair, my training command job is nothing like the combat military. It fits my specific life circumstances while allowing me the opportunity to continue to provide my talents in the service of our National Defense policy. I know my lane and role in this wheel, and I'm grateful for the opportunity. But it does not escape me that if this niche had not been made available to me, I would have had to leave the service, period dot. And I hate admitting it, but even the airlines and their proverbial 180 nights away would have been a more workable arrangement than the Active Duty (and even the Reserves, the way they're behaving these days) in present policy.
It takes all kinds, I guess is the BL on this one.
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