What is this based on? Have you spun a Cirrus, and several other frames to compare? During European certification the aircraft recovered just fine without any kind of abnormal behavior
**they recommend using the chute because, even though we're all "the best pilots we know" most day to day pilots will not be able to recover from a spin.. frankly, the fact that you even entered one would suggest that you were already well behind the aircraft.. so why risk pulling the wings off or dying? Just pull the chute
Go fly one.. the plane is the most stable platform I've flown.. it basically just goes exactly where you point it. If you know how to use the rudder pedals you can hold the plane in a falling leaf stall no problem. The stall is very benign.. my friend didn't even realize we were stalled outside of the audible warning and the airspeed being crazy low. By the way, it will require more disciple to fly than a 172, a Cirrus won't let you drag it in at 55 knots and get away with the kind of sloppy airmanship a Skyhawk will.. but neither will a Mooney, Bonanza, or any real airplane.
People make up this stuff about the Cirrus because they're either grossly misinformed or because they think it's cool for some reason