ok, thanks for the responses, I owe some of you answers, but 2 things:
1) to the above post, a while back I realized the side pressure was making me THINK I had pulled the yoke back, but really it was just pressed up against the side. I believe I have overcome this, and realize that last little bit of back pressure actually needs some "up" pressure as well, and
2) summary of my flight this morning, 7 landings:
1- roundout a little too early/high, "slammed" it in, but on the mains
2- roundout a little too low, "slammed" it in but on the mains
3- roundout a little too early/high, "slammed" it in, but on the mains
4- roundout a little too low, "slammed" it in but on the mains
5- roundout a little too low, "slammed" it in but on the mains
6-roundout a little too early/high, "slammed" it in, but on the mains
7-roundout a little too early/high, "slammed" it in, but on the mains
oh, and:
8- no solo (mostly by my request, I wanna do it right)
and really the 'slamming' wasn't horrible, CFi says he'd take those any day over hitting nosewheel first.
and to be clear, if I didn't love to fly, I wouldn't be this PO'd about not getting something right. After a good nights sleep, I woke up pumped for today's flight and now have a few days off until Saturdays lesson (notice I didn't say Saturday's solo)