I have heard it said that FF makes class D "transparent", but I err on the side of courtesy anyway. I was on FF one time and asked to cut across KSWF's airspace, but the controller said to remain clear. No big deal, ended up flying the gap between KSWF and R-5206.
On the same flight, however, I had another FF controller try to vector me as though I was in a bravo (I was outside, they were vectoring me towards the KPHL bravo when I was trying to go away from it); is there a polite way to ask to resume my own navigation that will not result in a "squawk 1200, seeya"?
Don't rely on hearsay, go to the source. From the Air Traffic Control Handbook:
"2-1-14. COORDINATE USE OF AIRSPACE
a.
Ensure that the necessary coordination has been accomplished before you allow an aircraft under your control to enter another controller's area of jurisdiction.
b. Before you issue control instructions directly or relay through another source to an aircraft which is within another controller's area of jurisdiction that will change that aircraft's heading, route, speed, or altitude,
ensure that coordination has been accomplished with each of the controllers listed below whose area of jurisdiction is affected by those instructions unless otherwise specified by a letter of agreement or a facility directive:
1. The controller within whose area of jurisdiction the control instructions will be issued.
2. The controller receiving the transfer of control.
3. Any intervening controller(s) through whose area of jurisdiction the aircraft will pass.
c. If you issue control instructions to an aircraft through a source other than another controller (e.g., ARINC, FSS, another pilot)
ensure that the necessary coordination has been accomplished with any controllers listed in subparas b1, 2, and 3, whose area of jurisdiction is affected by those instructions unless otherwise specified by a letter of agreement or a facility directive."
Section 2-1-16 deals with coordinating entry into a surface area controlled by another facility. In either case, coordination is the responsibility of the controller, not the pilot. Of course, if operational considerations require that you remain clear of certain airspace that is within the purview of the controller who is responsible for that airspace.
Bob Gardner