Well, my wife, a wise woman indeed, has now flown with me several times, since I got my pilot's license, said to me "I do not feel comfortable going to fly ins in non towered airports". She is not a pilot, but realizes you may not be able to see, to be able to avoid. Our aircraft is high wing and does not have a rear view mirror. So I think I'm going to choose to take her advice. I do have TCAS in the cockpit and have gotten warnings on aircraft I have never seen but have been able to avoid thanks to the assistance of the device.
Cheers.
You're going to avoid fly ins for fear of a midair?
Let me point out that there fly ins, and there are FLY INS. For example, we do a shrimp boil fly in every Spring on the island. It's all see and avoid, standard uncontrolled field stuff. We usually get over 100 aircraft, and the only issue we've had is parking. We addressed that with marshallers on golf carts -- problem solved.
Then, at the other end of the spectrum, there is Oshkosh, with the easiest, most logical, and highly codified approaches imaginable. Follow the NOTAM (and the railroad tracks), maintain spacing, and it's simplicity itself. Mary and I trade off flying in each year, and have done it many times.
So, which fly in do you think most pilots find to be the most "scary"?
We hear it all the time "Oshkosh is too crazy for me". Yet these same pilots seem to have NO problem flying in for our shrimp boil.
This is false logic. Oshkosh is the easiest fly in, anywhere, with multiple levels of safety and control. THOUSANDS of plane stream in, and out, safely. Yet many, many pilots avoid flying into OSH. Sadly.
Meanwhile, at our shrimp boil fly in, you've got every pattern entry imaginable, no ATC, and yet everyone streams in, and out, safely.
I know where I feel more comfortable: Oshkosh. But I won't avoid going to a small fly in because it is "less safe", any more than I will avoid driving on 2-lane roads because they are riskier.
My point is this: Don't paint all fly-ins with the same brush, and don't avoid all of them for irrational reasons.