FloridaPilot
Pattern Altitude
A few hundred years ago people loosing touch with others forever was not all so uncommon. People moved on. The whole business of closure seems like a fairly recent TV psychobabble/spiritual entertainment plot device to me.
I don't know if it's really relevant, but I did read someone's speculation that kids growing up and learning to play in the bombed out streets of London during WW2 wound up doing better than kids in today's nanny safe playgrounds. People are tough and can often do more than they think.
Your right,
People are tough and can get over it. The problem is you don't know exactly what happened to your loved ones. With the media saying the plane was taken hostage, crashed into the water, The pilot was a terrorist...etc every week or so. You don't know exactly what to believe. Once you find out what happened to them then you will sleep better and finally can go on with your life. The same thing happened to me during 9/11