We just washed out a controller trainee who exhibited the traits you seem to have.
Lack of humility
Unwillingness to learn
Disregarding instruction
Thinking “it’s everyone else, not me”
Complaining of a hostile work environment
Going through almost every trainer without improving
Stabbing people in the back
Thinking that every conversation is about you
Disregarding other people and their needs
Thinking she was on the same level of rated controllers
Thinking that if she didn’t get over keyed she was doing great
we’re all glad that she’s gone
Wrong in every possible way. But before I mention it, our class D has a new controller who's also already made multiple mistakes with me, including causing us to collide with a plane taking off even though she cleared us to land while simultaneously clearing the other to take off less than like a half mile away. I had to go around. The other controller had to quickly come in and say "disregard".
Anyway.
Humility. Nope. In real life, I don't brag, I don't boast, I don't act cocky or confident, I make others feel comfortable and at ease first, I don't show off, don't act like a know it all, if someone compliments my work, skill, or personally compliments me, I just say that it's nothing or that I simply got lucky and downplay it, I allow others to feel more assertive and let them assume the leadership role, (which always gets over their head and they become cocky a holes after and simply can't handle even a slight bit of positional power), and pretty much everything to be as humble as possible. 99% of my encounters go smoothly, there's always the one who from the moment he lays his eyes on me he hates me and wants to ruin me for some reason, as if I'm a threat. This isn't new to me at all though in the past few years it's decreased substantially.
Unwillingness to learn: I've already admitted to my mistake and pointed out numerous times here that I've learned and have adapted, not sure where it came from, but I suspect that by you telling me that I'm x or y "negative traits", you want to low key push to everyone and let everyone else know by implication that you by definition. Aren't x or y "negative traits", but instead are the opposite, and therefore should get likes and attention from the forum members here. Such an easy and simple tactic attention seekers
Disregarding instruction? I've done everything my main instructor taught me
Thinking it's everyone else not me? I literally have pointed out only a single person, that's all.
Complaining of hostile work environment? Not sure what this is about. I've never needed a job in my life and my schooling isn't work, and I get along with everyone fine and we are all good friends and close knit.
Going with every trainer bla bla. I've only had one instructor. It's been fine. I've improved each day. Everyone else by this point hasn't been taught communicating with atc. I've been doing all the atc calls lately correctly from start to finish while others still have the instructor do it and had the highest knowledge test score so I'm putting in thr work.
Stabbing people in the back? Dude are you talking about yourself and your traits? If anything only I've ever been stabbed in the back constantly. Thays one trait I despise the most and never do. If you think coming online as an anonymous person to explain my experience with someone is "Stabbing in the back" you have no clue what that phrase means.
Thinking that every conversation is about you? I have no clue what you're babbling about at this point. At what point in my posts did you get this impression?
Disregarding other people's needs? Have you read my posts? Ive clearly stated how I know how fragile and insecure and egotistical and needy for attention people are and I humble myself by them, let them feel more assertive and in control, compliment them and make them feel positive about myself, and make myself look like a broke nobody in comparison so they're at ease first, always, so there is no animosity from them, at all. I used to have people feel intimated and competitive with me, so I completely changed and started to put their insecurities ahead first. And ive not had any issues since, meanwhile you're running around making confident assertions as if youre correct everyday, acting cocky, and claiming I'm doing that. Maybe you do maybe you don't, idk. But when you generalize me with traits like that it's obvious your pushing your OWN traits as to me so as to ensure whatever perceptions people caught on about you are sneakily diverted to me. Lmao.
And the last two don't apply to me, but I've literally witnessed the new controller get keyed over like ten times by now. It didn't help when I asked her to call base cuz visibility was slightly bad in haze, and we had a mountain on downwind, and she said standby while we were less Than a mile away from colliding with it.