I've seen quite a few people try to get their pilot license. Some are still trying after quite a while, some have given up. There seems to be a trend in the ones who struggle. They have a preconceived notion of what a pilot is and where they want to be. Which is fine, but they see the airplane or endorsement everyone is talking about and end up side tracked or slowed down because of it, either training for something that would be easy after you know how fly too soon. Or wanting to train in a hot shot airplane where the operation of said plane takes up time that could be devoted to learning needed maneuvers or skills.
One comes to mind is a guy who watched a lot of youtubers and wanted to become like Steveo, who makes flying look easy. He got set up to train in Cirrus sr-20s and set all his cameras up. He began his training and making videos. Complete with shout outs to Steveo and Niko. He had an excellent instructor, but the problem was you could tell he was scared ****less to be in control. The cameras were distracting him. He made about 6 videos, then gave up. I think had he chosen a 172 and left the cameras at home he might have succeeded.
Another has been over a year, learning to fly in another hot shot airplane. He seems motivated, but I can't help but think had he been flying in a basic trainer, he'd have had his license and been transitioned into his dream plane by now.
I did my private a long time ago. I had preconceived notions of what flying was like. Those went away on my first flight, I had never been in a little airplane, the instructor had me do the takeoff. I was hooked, but the reality set in that it's easy to kill yourself doing this, so I decided to learn all I could. I got my license in about 7 months, it would have been quicker but it was a tough year weather wise and I got cancelled alot.
To the OP, fly as often as you can, study as hard as you can, even after you pass the written. You need to be able to answer all the same questions at your check ride. Learn the maneuvers and how to fly the plane, the basics. Be as comfortable as possible doing them.
Discuss your goals with your instructor. Generally, most instructors want to get you to pass the checkride as quickly as possible. Which is good, but as a new pilot, you want the ticket, and you want to be competent using it. Make sure you know how to fuel a plane, know how to deal with ATC, ATC should be second nature when you get your ticket. Make sure you understand how to figure out which runway to land on and how to get there on both controlled and uncontrolled airports. Sounds basic, but you would be surprised. You want to be comfortable planning out a flight and flying to an unfamiliar airport.
Focus on the ticket, the other stuff you can do later and it will make more sense.
My advice.