Hey Mike, thanks for trying to keep the signal to noise ratio on the signal side. (I know it is hard because I got sucked into a side comment earlier in this very thread.)
The clearance, as I remember it is as in the thread title, direct GORDE then cleared for the ILS 13, Greg County (GGG). I was approximately at ROCKK on the HUBARD NINE Departure.GGG transition. I was expecting either radar vectors or GODHO.
Spiderweb mentioned being flustered and I think that was the case. I didn't see GORDe in the 430 even though I saw it on the plate. I can see why now, but clipping along, that was not obvious to me at the time. (Indicating I need more practice.) I plan on finding and installing a 430 simulator that was mentioned earlier.
(Edit: removed reference to GG LOM. Edit: MEO)
HHUBB9.GGG helps... tells me you were coming out of the DFW space. I am in Denton, so we are traveling some of the same airways. (PS. I am always looking for opportunities to fly with other IFR pilots in order to expand my knowledge and experience).
I am reading between the lines that the chain of events might have started when it was time to get which approach you were going to use figured out.
Did you ask for that approach or was it just offered up to you? If it was the former, did you include in your request how you wanted to join (aka vectors or direct to a fix)? Or was it the former and the approach controller got you kerfluffled by sending you to the wrong fix?
Can you find the Live ATC archive recording and share with us?
But seeing that you said,
"I was expecting either radar vectors or GODHO." may answer my question. And my criticism is that you let the controller dictate your entry versus using Pilot In Command authority and asking for the desired entry.
Every CFI-I I have flown with shared the wisdom that I as PIC need to be the one asking for the specific IAP I want along with how I want to get on it.
This morning, taking a friend from DTO to 0F2 (Bowie), I took off VFR, but it was obvious the METAR at Bowie wasn't updating to show the broken layer between me and the runway. So after sorting out the pop up IFR flight plan request, I told the controller, "55WB requests the RNAV17 approach for Bowie, direct HIXEL." After a short "Standby", that was approved and we got the approach shot and done and both sides were happy. And me happy because I chose and asked for how the dance was to be done and that's what ATC was good to go with.
But returning, I did get an "expect this approach". Taking off from Bowie, I was able to remain VFR and get up to 4500 feet but that broken layer was beneath me and now extended to Denton, making DTO MVFR with ceilings at 2300ish). So another pop up clearance requested and obtained, along with ZFW putting me on the GREGGS8 arrival and direct GREGGS. 10-ish miles from GREGGS, I was directed to switch to Regional Approach. When I checked in, I hadn't made up my mind between the ILS18 or the RNAV18 yet, but I knew with the headwind I had, I still had time before passing GREGGS to give my request and receive my initial vectors. I was just about to push the button to ask for the ILS18 with vectors when the mind reader of a controller said to expect just that.
Anyhow, the TL;dr of this is that as PIC, you need to have figured out what you want to do in advance of talking to your last approach controller, including what IAP and how you want to be put on that IAP. My routine when checking on is usually
"55iWB, level at __ thousand, we have weather and NOTAMs at _____. Request the XYZ approach direct [initial_fix_name]". Or replace the direct with "vectors" if I that works better for where I am in relation to the IAP.
And summary, if you had the plate up, saw that the course from ROCKK to GODHO was gonna make for one difficult turn to get on the arc. Then making th PIC request for VTF would have been the better choice for both shooting the approach, and getting your 430 set up and properly sequencing.
So.... when are we gonna go flying?