Not everyone. And I for one don't suggest sugar coating anything. I suggest recognizing our own ignorance of the circumstances surrounding most accidents beyond that provided by sources whose accuracy we usually deride, and 'analysis' performed by people not qualified to do so. Heck, not that long ago here in POA we had people (and that's plural) speculating on the cause of an accident based on a single photo. OF THE WRONG CRASH SITE. POA has also seen 'analysis' so flawed that it was not even remotely plausible, but some believed. I've seen a real damage caused by speculation on accidents (also plural) where I was a party to the investigation and the speculative causes were simply not possible...but they gained traction, and in at least one case took years to correct.
So I don't speculate, and I don't 'skip over' threads where it's happening. Has nothing to do with sugar coating (quite the opposite) nor respect for the dead, although I think getting the facts does happen to be more respectful than pulling causes out of thin air and popular media.
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