I don't think I talk like it happens all the time. That's you and your iPad bias who talks like it happens to tablets all the time.
I have seen charts blow off a wing and fall into water. And slide off yoke clips and under seats irretrievably. And rip on well worn folds. And get spread out so the pilot can search for something and get so distracted, aircraft control is lost. Just as I've seen people place iPad on wings and other places where they will almost necessarily overheat, or have them drop off their laps or get distracted by them.
The difference between us (among others) is that I see the paper and plastic events as the same. A pilot that made an organizational mistake. OTOH, you see them as inherently different. When it happens with paper, the pilot is "stupid" (your words referring to my hypothetical pilot). If it happens with a tablet, it's the tablet's fault.
I quite understand your bias considering the issues you claim to have had with multiple failures. OTOH, I'm not the only one here who has used an iPad in flight for more than 4 years and never had it overheat, fail or crash. (I did have my Stratus overheat, however - admittedly a stupid pilot who left it on the glareshield during lunch on a sunny day in Florida. No big deal. I wasn't worried about thunderstorms so weather information wasn't an issue and my resulting no-GPS iPad was, well still and EFB with all the charts. And definitely not the Status's fault - after all, it didn't climb up on the glareshield itself to sunbathe).
I do not fly IFR without backups. They just don't happen to be made of paper. I realize that to you, if it's not paper its not really a backup, but that's your issue, not mine.