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91.3 Responsibility and authority of the pilot in command.
(a) The pilot in command of an aircraft is directly responsible for, and is the final authority as to, the operation of that aircraft.
(b) In an in-flight emergency requiring immediate action, the pilot in command may deviate from any rule of this part to the extent required to meet that emergency.
Not knowing where you are supposed to go because a controller forgot you and the frequency is congested sounds like an emergency requiring immediate action to me.
(a) The pilot in command of an aircraft is directly responsible for, and is the final authority as to, the operation of that aircraft.
(b) In an in-flight emergency requiring immediate action, the pilot in command may deviate from any rule of this part to the extent required to meet that emergency.
Not knowing where you are supposed to go because a controller forgot you and the frequency is congested sounds like an emergency requiring immediate action to me.