Agreed. Take a listen sometime to morning and afternoons through evening with JFK Tower sometime. You can pick it up on
ATCLive.net. You can learn a lot there about good communication.
...and also some of the worst, as has been posted on this site.
Anyway, the whole "with you" thing is stupid. They should just make it part of standard phaseology and get it over with. Like someone mentioned here, when you have a controller who says, "change to my freq on 123.45", it sure would be easier to just say, "cessna 12345 with you" than stumbling trying to figure out what to say (cessna 12345 on 123.45?--- i dunno). I believe that the whole "with you" thing is just a passing thing for us pilots to nit pick about.
"With you"....it takes less than a second to say, and people like to say it...so what?
BTW, I try not to say it, and I cringe when I hear other pilots say it, but I think this is a silly debate.
Also, at an uncontrolled airport, saying, "cessna 12345 clear the active" also drives me nuts, but I know what they mean, so I don't care. I prefer saying, "cessna 12345, clear all runways".
For the record, I have never flown cessna 12345.
Only a few years ago, the word "google" only meant 1 followed by 100 zeros. Now it means something else too. The english language changes all the time, as do other languages...
I know that some of you will fire back at me saying things about int'l carriers and the importance of them using standard phraseology, and I think that it's important for us all to know what the standard phraseology is and be able to use it, but we shouldn't get miffed if someone says "with you" or whatever, as long as the point is getting across.
OK, bash away at me....I'm ready.