stingray
Line Up and Wait
Dan, I'd be happy to fly with you in my airplane, but - and this is not intended to denigrate your flying abilities - you don't know diddly about flying it, and you will not be able to fly it safely without at least a bit of a checkout. (The elevator is very sensitive and responsive.) Do you honestly expect me to take you flying in it under the conditions you list? I, too, operate under the "most chicken pilot wins" rule. All you have to do is say "I'm not comfortable with doing that", and we won't. No muss, no fuss, no angst.
If you'd started out with that approach, there's not a person on here who'd argue. By saying "I'm going to be PIC, period", you came across as unnecessarily confrontational. That's not a good attitude to take into any cockpit, no matter what kind of airplane, no matter how much experience you have, and no matter who's doing the flying.
You go back and read all the posts, you will see that the first statement I made that sounded "confrontational" came from my recent experiences of being asked to fly with someone rusty or someone learning. I have already said many times I did not explain that very well.
As for flying your plane, I am trusting you that I will not have to. All you have to do is fly it in a safe and legal manner and you will never relinquish the controls. That's great that you operate under the "Most chicken pilot wins rule". So if that's the rule then what is the problem. I say stop and you stop. When did I touch anything. You want me, to trust you, that you will stop, but what your saying is; I don't trust you, that if I don't stop, that you will not ask for the controls.
It is quite obvious that most of you have not flown with someone who has little regards for the rules. You have not been in a plane where you said I'd rather you did not do that and had it done anyway. A band crashed the other day and one of the surviving members said "I will never fly again". Are you going to hold that against him? If he said "I will never fly again unless I have control over the outcome of the flight". Are you going to hold that against him? He may never fly with you, but do you think he cares. Can you blame him? He did trust in the past maybe more than once.
By the way, (If you'd started out with that approach, there's not a person on here who'd argue.) I totally agree, if pilots take the time to join a group like this chances are they are a very conscientious pilot. Too bad I do not get to fly with pilots like these. Why do you think that I joined this group. It's nice to be able to talk to a pilot once in a while that cares about making the right ADM.
Dan