I have about 1,500 tailwheel hours, much of it instructing tailwheel transition courses in Citabrias - which included wheel landings, of course.
Having learned "full stall" landings as my norm, wheel landings have always felt less natural to me. I can do them successfully, and even teach them, but always found them a little more difficult to get right.
A few observations;
1) It helped me to brace my forearm firmly against my right inner thigh. That seemed to help "damp out" incipient oscillations. Might not work so well with a yoke.
2) The spring steel gear on the Citabria made it very easy to "bounce" wheel landings. I found it less likely to bounce if I landed on one wheel first. This is very natural in a crosswind, but I found even with no wind I would tend to roll on the right main first. This means landing in a tiny slip, and may not be great advice in general, but it really worked for me.
3) I did use some extra speed to "buy time" to find the ground with minimal sink. But watch some of the Valdez landing competitions and you'll see that's hardly necessary - though those tundra tires serving as massive "shock absorbers" looks like it helps a lot!
Go to 1:40 below for an example, with at least one to follow:
http://youtu.be/F9EnVah07k0
Admittedly, the very shortest ones appear to be "tailwheel first". I happened to find the very best "full stall" landings in a Citabria were ever-so-slightly tailwheel first - you could just feel it roll on gently, and the the mains would drop no more than a foot or so - done flying and less "skittery" than a true 3-point.