Yes I paid him even before posting this thread. I even reached out to a fellow fraternity brother that agreed to even fly us out there to get his plane before posting this thread. He has his plane back and we are squared away with him actually making money off of the flight back. He is going to have someone look at the electrical system. We took off from my home airport, went down to his airport and picked him up and then head over to get his plane.
It is nice to see everyone's input on this. I still feel the way I feel and will sleep good tonight. I did not leave him high and dry and offered to get him back to his plane by two options one he did not like because it would have got us there at night. I did not fly the plane back and did not feel like it was my responsibility to pay for a plane back when I was not going to fly it and even he did not want to fly it at night for concern.
For clarity on the transportation. I offered to take my father n laws extra car to get back home at no cost to the owner and I would bring him back.
Just FYI I did not leave the plane on the side of the road/open field and tell him figure it out
. I left it with an FBO, requested tie downs, asked how much it was going to cost and informed them based on the weather at what time/day we would be back to the get the plane.