The Favorite and Least Favorite Cities:

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One person's extremism is another's deeply held, core beliefs.

What makes same acceptable in a pluralistic society is the ability of the true believer to still function within, contribute to, and commerce with the others.

Agree 100%. And what I'm really referring to is that latter piece: People who don't possess that particular trait aren't going to be welcome anywhere -- regardless of which side of the spectrum they're on and especially when they're at the extreme end of it.

Full evidence thou hast gone off the deep end, sir...

:yikes:
Ehh, it's like New York, minus the New Yorkers. Xanadu. ;)
 
I don't think I could ever return to San Diego.











































Last time I was there I saw no bald guys? What happened to them all? Camps? Rednecks with shotguns and pickup trucks? I don't know, but I ain't sticking around long enough to find out.
 
Agree 100%. And what I'm really referring to is that latter piece: People who don't possess that particular trait aren't going to be welcome anywhere -- regardless of which side of the spectrum they're on and especially when they're at the extreme end of it.


Ehh, it's like New York, minus the New Yorkers. Xanadu. ;)

I've spent a total of one week in Chicago -- hardly enough time to know for sure, but my take-away was a definate "closes at 5" vibe.

Any city with easy Highway egress suffers from middle-class flight -- Manhattan has a peculiar arrangement that forces people to actually live in the city.

As far as New Yorkers -- Manhattan seems to have fewer and fewer of the true, "Whaddya lookin at?!" types every time I go.

I think they all moved out to the island.
 
I've spent a total of one week in Chicago -- hardly enough time to know for sure, but my take-away was a definate "closes at 5" vibe.

Any city with easy Highway egress suffers from middle-class flight -- Manhattan has a peculiar arrangement that forces people to actually live in the city.

Yeah, but only in the Loop... There's virtually no residential here at all. Some -- and certainly more now than there used to be -- but very, very little... And yeah, that leads to it being a ghost town after COB. I always feel bad for folks who stay in hotels in the Loop... If that's where you were then I completely understand why you came away with that impression.

But just a few blocks in any direction (well... except east, maybe) and you get out of that dead zone. The West Loop and South Loop are all bigtime residential areas that are good and busy 24/7 -- again, now more than they used to be. And cross the river to the north and you're smack in the middle of the most night-lifey, vibrant neighborhoods in the city.

Chicago's like that... You cross the street from one neighborhood into another, and the whole vibe completely changes.

As far as New Yorkers -- Manhattan seems to have fewer and fewer of the true, "Whaddya lookin at?!" types every time I go.

I think they all moved out to the island.

I was just kidding about New Yorkers. In fact, I've never really been of the impression that they're any more abrasive than anybody else. Louder, maybe, but that's about it. :dunno:
 
If ya spend a bit of time in conversation with folks, you can tell. I lived in a canyon above Boulder and it was evident with a few of our neighbors we interacted with.
I notice when people have different political views but unless they are obnoxiously vocal on one side or another I don't really care. I've found that my blue friends find me pretty conservative and my red friend think I'm a liberal. I do agree with you though, Kenny that there are definitely pockets of blue and red depending on the area of the country. That doesn't mean that everyone who lives there feels that way, however.
 
I think they all moved out to the island.

That's Lon Guyland to you!

I was just kidding about New Yorkers. In fact, I've never really been of the impression that they're any more abrasive than anybody else. Louder, maybe, but that's about it. :dunno:

Yeah?! Well **** YOU!!! :D

Most New Yorkers are actually very friendly. We even generally will politely give people directions that aren't incorrect... at least not intentionally. ;)
 
Yeah?! Well **** YOU!!! :D
:rofl::rofl:

Actually, first time ever in New York, I think just coming out of Grand Central Station from NJ, me and some random dude walking in front of me almost got hit by some car while we were crossing the street. He and I both reacted with the same, "HO!" and "WTF" arms in the air gesture. The driver responded with a "GO **** YOURSELF!"

I thought to myself, "That was perfect!" :D

Most New Yorkers are actually very friendly. We even generally will politely give people directions that aren't incorrect... at least not intentionally. ;)
But yeah, outside of the above (which was AWESOME :D), that's been my experience. :yes:
 
To the small city question, having grown up in New York I pretty much consider every other "city" to be small.

I really liked San Antonio from the time I spent there, but that's probably a bit too big to fall into the small section. It's a really nice place, though. Boise was a great town from the three days I spent there... but it really was a great little town. I liked it quite a bit.

I don't know if Williamsport counts or not. We've got about 50,000 people, and it's pretty nice. Has a lot of the features on paper that you'd want from a city (even an NPR station and a few schools), plus a nice airport, good proximity to New York City, and you can easily live in the middle of nowhere and still be within good driving distance to work (like I do). It's actually a pretty nice place to live for the most part.
 
Actually, first time ever in New York, I think just coming out of Grand Central Station from NJ, me and some random dude walking in front of me almost got hit by some car while we were crossing the street. He and I both reacted with the same, "HO!" and "WTF" arms in the air gesture. The driver responded with a "GO **** YOURSELF!"

I thought to myself, "That was perfect!" :D

Yeah, that's a good New Yorkism. :)
 
Any NYer I've ever met has been very friendly. They will talk your ear off actually. One of THE most sensitive guys I've ever met is from Lon Guyland. (sensitive, like have you ever seen the movie Bedazzled with Brendan Fraser and the "sensitive guy" skit? Like that.)

Matt, hilarious story. :)
 
Not to make it too political, but I don't think anybody actually gets an unwelcome feeling anywhere because of anything to do with the type of political views they have; rather, I think it's because of the extremism of them.
Try telling anyone within 500 miles of Tulsa that you are celebrating Siva's birthday.
 
I don't think I could ever live north of DC (or, more accurately, "some place with winter weather worse than DC"), for as much as I enjoy visiting NYC. That would also rule out Chicago.
 
I don't think I could ever live north of DC (or, more accurately, "some place with winter weather worse than DC"), for as much as I enjoy visiting NYC. That would also rule out Chicago.

Eeeeeyeah, it's a little tough to make the case for Chicago in the middle of winter. :frown3:<--- for want of a "teeth chattering" smilie.
 
We voted with our feet -- both of us born and raised in Southern California, lived there all our lives until the mid 1990's when we finally said, "Check, please -- we're done," and moved to the Northwest. We put up with the weather for the quality of life.

Our grandkids live in suburban Phoenix, that's why we have a second home there. I don't mind the weather (this last week was beautiful) except during monsoon season, when the heat is definitely not "dry". My beef with the Phoenix area is that it's so spread out that it's at least a thirty mile drive to go from anywhere to anywhere.

Agreed. Downtown Portland reminds you of a European city. Unfortunately, so do the people. We're across the river, where it's more of a small-town feel, the government is run by grown-ups and there's no state income tax.

I like going to Chandler for meetings in February. Temps in the 70s, people running around with coats on complaining about how cold it is. :D Coming down from the PNW for meetings we just laugh at them. We haven't seen 70s in months and it feels great!

Vancouver is nice. Our daughter and son-in-law live and work there. Enjoy not having a state income tax. If the folks in Olympia have their way, you'll have one. Of course, it's been voted down by the voters more times than I can count over the decades.

I have at some questions about this survey. Where did the survey come from? How many people were asked? Were only people who had actually lived in a city allowed to reply or just anyone, visitor or even anyone who had not even every been there?

I can easily go to a city and visit and think I know which ones are more desirable than others to live in but I don't really know until I've lived there. I can tell you which cities I visited that I THINK would be more desirable to live in...but unless I've lived in a very hot, low humidity, for instance, for I would say at least a year, how would I know I could live with that on a regular basis when I'm used to living in a city that has noticeable seasons?

I would venture to guess...only a guess and maybe, possibly slight chance of it being an educated guess... that many people who rated the cities had never even lived there and who knows if they'd even visited?

I think this survey sounds and smells awefully fishy to me.:nonod::rofl:

I'll note that point on each of the following:

Live in a city? No thanks. But, I grew up in a college town with a total population of around 25,000, and that was when there were 17,000 students on campus. I much prefer living in a smaller "town" environment (and do).

Now, cities to visit?

1. London. I never run out of things to see or do there. I expect to spend a little time there in August.

Haven't lived there, but spent a month working there in 1978 (October/November time frame). Been back a few times since. Love visiting, but it's a city.

2. Rome. Been there once, should spend a couple days there this July. Hot!

Only been there in the summer. As noted, HOT! And, it's a city. I don't like living in cities.

3. Paris. Visited in 1971, 1992 and twice more in the past 2 years. Interesting, but I think I've seen enough for now. Maybe in a few years again (this time with my wife).

4 visits. Interesting to visit, but, it's a city.

4. Tokyo is a mess, but you can get around with the subways and trains. Osaka was easier.

Again, it's a city. An interesting one, but still...

5. Phoenix? Who are you kidding. As a friend who lives there had his daughter say the first summer they lived there, "Dad, you moved us to he!!". "But it's a dry heat! - So's an oven!"

6 months of the year it's liveable. 6 months of the year, no thanks. That's why some folks I know go there in the winter, and return home for our "summer".

6. Seattle? Rains all the time. Almost as much as it does where I live. :D They average 40 inches a year, we average 50. And it falls most of the year. Live there? Not on a bet. Bad enough sharing a state with them.

Seattle is a city. And folks there think the uw is a great institution of higher learning. Actually, I think the people there belong in an institution. But, I went to WSU. :D

7. Portland? Outside of town in the suburbs maybe, but no way downtown.

Noted above. And I lived in Beaverton (with a Portland mailing address) for a bit over a year when I first joined Intel. BTDT, no way will I live in Portland.

8. Sacramento? When Davis or Auburn are available, and much less crowded?

Lived in Davis from 1952 to 1961. Yeah, it's changed. The back fence at our house was the edge of development, not now. Sacramento is a city. Davis still isn't.

9. San Jose? BTDT. Not again. It's a city!

11 1/2 years there. Not again if I can help it. Too many people.

10. Denver. Now, no way downtown, but outside of Denver itself? Sure. The 4 years we spent there weren't at all bad. The climate is great (rare to get below 0, rare to get over 100). Things to do. Lots of sun. Downside - bad roads (pot holes you can lose a small car in),

If I had to move back to the Denver area (and I really don't want to move), there are a number of nice areas outside the city center. Not a bad area to live.

See the pattern? I don't like living in cities, but I'll visit now and then.

I'm as un-city-slicker as one can be on the East coast -- I can't see another house from mine, have two horses, cut my own wood, and shoot clays in my back yard.

:smilewinkgrin:

That sounds great to me. I could legally shoot clays in my backyard, but the neighbors are a little close and would rightfully come unglued. :D
 
They're the ones driving Dodge Ram pickups (usually with a diesel, and not towing anything behidn them) to go buy something at Cabela's as opposed to you liberal hippies who drive Volvos and shop at Whole Foods. ;)

Ugh... Whole Foods. NO.

I shop at a plain old grocery store, and I do NOT spend three times as much for "organic" anything. Food is food. I eat it, it keeps me alive.

Though I do drive a Volvo, I've lusted after a Ram since the "new" ones came out in 1994. I just have no need at all to haul stuff around, and definitely no need to spend the $$$ to gas one up, so until I do have said need, I'll stick with my Volvo (which I love, it's a great car).

I guess that makes me moderate to conservative, right? ;)
 
Now, if living in a "city" is so great, tell me a single big city where the following are true:

get from anywhere to anywhere in half an hour
have 6 airports within a 1/2 hour drive
the air is clean.

My oh my -- finally....

::Queue swelling symphonic music::

Madison... thy name shall henceforth be ---- Utopia!


:cheers:

Couldn't do it, could ya? :P :D
 
Awwwright you wiseacre city-slicker, ease up on Madison!!!:D

It really is a nice place. The lake is right there,

Lakes. ;) Downtown is on the isthmus between lakes Mendota and Monona, and then to the southeast there's Wingra, Waubesa, etc...

State Street Brats does a great job of clogging arteries.

:yes:

Actually, Slappy mentioned cuisine - We have about all the foreign cuisine you could possibly want. I don't know why - Maybe a lot of the foreign students stay and open up restaurants? :dunno: All I know is there's a new Brazilian place I have to try out...

Actually, my old boss and his wife eat out for dinner, every single night. They go to a different restaurant, every single night. They have never been to the same restaurant twice!

Costs are low,

Uhhh... Well, that's not a claim I'd make. In the city is the highest in the state I'm pretty sure. People complain about how expensive it is... You don't have to go too far into the outskirts to get into the realm of reasonable though.

traffic low, beer plentiful. I like it.

:yes:!!!

I'd even trade some of the beer to keep the traffic low. :rofl:

I'm with Kent - not a big fan of traffic.

I was thinking about this while sitting in traffic in Chicago once. If your commute averages one hour each way, you spend 10 hours a week in traffic. That's 520 hours a year, in traffic. That's TWENTY-TWO DAYS in traffic every year. Across a lifetime of work, say 40 years, that's 20,800 hours. 20,800 hours is two years, four months, two weeks, two days, and four hours. If you were about to die and someone said "Hey, how about another 2 1/2 years?" I'm pretty sure you'd take it - Our time on this earth is limited, ain't no way in hell I'm gonna **** it away sitting in traffic.

Can you tell I *really* hate traffic? :rofl:
 
Lakes. ;) Downtown is on the isthmus between lakes Mendota and Monona, and then to the southeast there's Wingra, Waubesa, etc...



:yes:

Actually, Slappy mentioned cuisine - We have about all the foreign cuisine you could possibly want. I don't know why - Maybe a lot of the foreign students stay and open up restaurants? :dunno: All I know is there's a new Brazilian place I have to try out...

Actually, my old boss and his wife eat out for dinner, every single night. They go to a different restaurant, every single night. They have never been to the same restaurant twice!
I know plenty of people who really love Madison, but I've never been there. Not once. Been through it, but not to it.

That may have to change. :)
 
I've always liked Chicago but it 1) is too far from the ocean, any ocean and 2) has lots of people with really grating mid-Western accents. Like nails on a chalkboard I tells ya.

And I know, I know, Philly accents.......... But that nasally, "oh my GAAAD. MAAM, you shrank my paJEAMAAs" UUUUUGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHH>



It'd be like living in a city full of Sarah Palins:yikes:
 
I've always liked Chicago but it 1) is too far from the ocean, any ocean and 2) has lots of people with really grating mid-Western accents. Like nails on a chalkboard I tells ya.

And I know, I know, Philly accents.......... But that nasally, "oh my GAAAD. MAAM, you shrank my paJEAMAAs" UUUUUGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHH>

Bah, just stay on the North Side. It's not EEAAAAAAAAS BEEEEAAAAAAAAAD up here. ;)

It'd be like living in a city full of Sarah Palins:yikes:
Bite your tongue! It's not THEEEEAAAAAAAAAT BEEEEAAAAAAD. :eek:
 
Ugh... Whole Foods. NO.

I shop at a plain old grocery store, and I do NOT spend three times as much for "organic" anything. Food is food. I eat it, it keeps me alive.

What? Geez, I love Whole Foods. I'd do about all of my shopping there if we had one. The Wegman's does a good job of trying to be one. Plus the non-special food costs just as much as it does at any other grocery store. Works well for me.

Though I do drive a Volvo, I've lusted after a Ram since the "new" ones came out in 1994. I just have no need at all to haul stuff around, and definitely no need to spend the $$$ to gas one up, so until I do have said need, I'll stick with my Volvo (which I love, it's a great car).

I guess that makes me moderate to conservative, right? ;)

You can't be that conservative, because you still drive a Volvo, have only lusted after a Ram, are too logical to buy one since you don't need it, and don't shop at Cabela's. The Volvo puts you slightly to the liberal side. ;)

I drive a Ford Excursion, have shopped (and would shop more if possible) at Whole Foods, mom used to own a Volvo, and I used to shop at Gander Mountain.

I have no idea what I am. :confused:
 
I've always liked Chicago but it 1) is too far from the ocean, any ocean and 2) has lots of people with really grating mid-Western accents. Like nails on a chalkboard I tells ya.

And I know, I know, Philly accents.......... But that nasally, "oh my GAAAD. MAAM, you shrank my paJEAMAAs" UUUUUGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHH>



It'd be like living in a city full of Sarah Palins:yikes:

Coming from Western PA, we call Mom, "Mawm".
 
Coming from Western PA, we call Mom, "Mawm".

Yeah, I know, I bet you used to go canoeing on the Mawn with your boyfriend Dawn. I spent a life there one year. Kidding. I like Pittsburgh.
 
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