Actually, from the neck of the woods I grew up in, a truck driving job was a GOOD job. And from a financial perspective they're still doing better then most americans by far.
I always wonder why we talk about salary without talking about spending... if your salary is $100K and you spend 95K a year and have another $35K in credit card debt on top of that, you're a lot worse off than the guy who makes $70K and spends $45K a year, and stashes the rest in his 401K, IRA, mattress...
Yes, there's a point where you're making $20K and can't even get by, I know.
But, within the salaries that most of the "middle class" make, there's a lot of ability to affect serious changes in Net Worth by making serious, calculated changes,
in lifestyle.
When you stop chasing the Jones'... things can be really good. I'm always appalled at shopping malls. They just scream "debt" to me. Especially the parking lots full of new luxury cars.
To bring it back to this discussion -- I've met kids making that $20K/year, living in a crashpad, and *loving* it. And I've met more folks who were just completely annoyed, angry, or just "suffering through" it. Generally I don't think it's a fun lifestyle for the "average" person. But a few really don't mind it. They also tend to be the few that are happy in most any circumstance.
So... I'm not attempting to sway anyone either way on whether the pilot lifestyle is "good" or not. It's a very personal thing, how much you think you can live on "comfortably". Or maybe the better question is "Do you know how to live comfortably on very little?"
Expenses < Salary = Good.
Expenses = Salary = Gettin' scary.
Expenses > Salary = Not good.
The salary isn't the only variable in those equations. Or as my Great Depression era grandfather used to say: "Get out your calculator." He was a farmer, and a truck driver, and a restauranteur, and a civic worker, and a gas-station attendant, and a technical worker at a porcelain-firing plant.
Nothing fancy, but he never truly wanted for anything. He didn't need the newest or the best of anything.
I had a similar decision to make 2.5-3 years into an Aviation Degree many years ago...
I had three part-time jobs, grants, loans and all that to make ends meet. I had my PP-ASEL, and wasn't progressing very quickly working 3 jobs.
One of the jobs eventually morphed into a decent but not high-paying full-time job due to hard work and taking every opportunity given. That led to more focus on the job and less on school.
Then the opportunity bell rang again... a travel job that was a decent lower-middle-class salaried position as a "Field Engineer" in telecom. I bit. The school suffered, I dropped out and flew for fun, but not very often, until May of 1999.
Then my responsibilities and home life took priority -- and there's not a single hour in the logbook again until March of 2007. I started flying again and half-heartedly chasing an Instrument Rating, and really screwed up a bit there. I didn't want to sit in a simulator, and that's (of course) where we started spending our time, my CFI and I. At odd hours, because of my work schedule, too.
What I realized later was that what I really wanted was just to go flying.
Having messed with my own head, spending too much time in the sim and not enough re-capturing the flying bug, I didn't fly at all in 2008.
Then, what saved me... in 2009 the "deal you can't refuse" on 1/3 ownership in a 1975 C-182P fell into my lap through friends of my Dad. The things I hated, they didn't have... scheduling through a club with a big roster, not having any control or say in maintenance, etc etc... ownership was different. I liked what I saw.
They started "working on me" at a Christmas party in 2008, and by February of 2009, I was back at the club, putting on a few more hours to meet the "time in type" requirements of the insurance, and May of 2009... I went "all-in", hook, line, and sinker.
By December of 2010 I have not only gotten "all the way back" into Aviation, including various lifestyle changes and removing other commitments that were in the way of going to the airport every weekend, but had even started an Aviation-themed podcast with three virtually unknown-to-me people who were pilots from Twitter. (And that's been amazingly fun! And I have more than three new GREAT friends because of it.)
That led to a trip to Oshkosh last summer for my first time... and what a great way to start... Sloshkosh 2010! Awesome. (And there I met Kent, and gained another new friend.)
Now... at the beginning of 2011... it's rare that I don't fly at least once a week (only weather really stops me) and I'm seriously committed to the Instrument Rating again. Written test tomorrow... this'll be the third time I've taken it (and passed). This time, it's getting done.
Expenses vs. Salary for me... My budget as an official "old-fart" in telecom, since I started when I was not old enough to rent a car, but was in a travel job that required it every week (that was fun... "I'm tellin' you lady, the company carries my insurance... and this case here has tools and test gear in it that is worth more than the whole car, and they trust me with that! Here's my bosses phone number, give him a call. And here's the self-insurance papers from the company Legal department and a letter from your company..."), I eventually made it up to where the 182 is the "perfect" expense.
I see that now.
But a couple of years ago, I fretted and worried over that decision far more than my wife, trying to "protect" her.
After another worry/fretting session out-loud at my computer, looking at Quicken and things... my wife, the most wonderful person in the world said...
"Just go do it already. We can afford it. I have no idea what you're worried about."
01 Feb 2011 will be the 20th anniversary of my first flight lesson, in N75839, a Skyhawk.
I'm taking that darn Instrument written before the 20th Anniversary of that.
On May 19th, 1992 I became a Private Pilot.
And I intend to be Instrument rated before May 19th, 2011. We'll call it my not-quite 20th Anniversary rating.
So... I chose NOT to fly professionally, and for me... it has worked out great. I'm having more fun than a barrel of monkeys right now, and had plenty of fun in those years I didn't fly too. But way more now that I'm flying again!
Who knows... Commercial in 2012, CFI in 2013? Maybe a multi-engine rating? The sky's the limit, and that's no joke!