I'll explain this like I explain it in a lesson briefing. Take it one point at a time.
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Approach speed on final: 1.3 x Vso.
Vso is stall speed in landing configuration (flaps down). Find this in POH Chapter 5, Performance.
Gust factors: Take the difference between the sustained wind and the gust factor, and add it to your approach speed on final.
Example: Wind 170@20G25. 25-20 = 5. Add 5 knots to the approach speed on final.
Touchdown procedures: Consider each one of these points carefully.
1. When you are first getting used to performing crosswind landings correctly, put the airplane into a slip earlier, rather than later. An example of doing this "later" would be flying the airplane with the nose pointed into the wind as you descend towards the runway, and then "kicking" the nose to align it with the center line while over the runway, applying necessary aileron input to prevent the wind from pushing your aircraft sideways as you land -- all within a few seconds.
Instead of doing this "nose alignment" action over the runway, practice doing it on a 1/2 mile final. We call this a slip. Once you have this established, you can focus more on smoothly adjusting pitch and power to achieve a target airspeed and descent path.
2. On the point of smoothly adjusting pitch, don't "pump" the elevator. Smoothly adjust and re-adjust the pitch of the nose to achieve the desired speed on final until you cross over the numbers. Upon crossing over the numbers, keep the runway in sight by maintaining a slightly nose-low pitch attitude.
3. The ailerons sometimes will need to be aggressively adjusted to counteract gusts. Remember, your goal is to keep the wind from pushing the airplane to either side of the runway. Adjust the ailerons accordingly. Of course, when landing, you still need the aileron input! Don't let it all out just because you're about to land.
4. When you touch down with correct aileron input, one wheel will touch down first. As you decelerate, the other wheel will naturally touch the ground without the need for you to adjust anything. This period of time is very short. Focus on keeping the nose gear off the runway until it, too, is ready to touch the ground on its own. If there is any need to "steer the airplane," you probably don't have enough aileron input to counteract the crosswind.
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Keep in mind that performing crosswind landings correctly is a task mastered best with someone who already knows how to do it correctly. There is nothing wrong with hiring a CFI for an hour to work specifically on this rather technical task until you feel comfortable enough to practice it solo.