Ever write a post you just know won't go well, but you do it anyway...
What is the deal with over water, I just don't get it? Someone will avoid flying over water, but think nothing of flying over swamps, dense urban area, and dense forest. Or anything at night.
At least with water in the daytime you have an excellent chance of getting it down without serious injury. You can also easily buy overwater equipment and should. Plus with some altitude, if you can't reach shore, maybe you can reach a boat.
I was just out over the Gulf about 75 miles from shore. I felt great, daytime, good altitude for gliding, I could always see at least one boat, oil platform, etc. in gliding range.
IFR, with equipment, no problem.
No, most people who avoid over water with an SEL will also avoid the other big hazards of low IFR or night over unfriendly territory.
There are 6 links to most any accident chain. Risk management is about eliminating the ones you can. The obvious ones to eliminate are the ones that carry the biggest risks and carry the smallest rewards.
I've spent a good part of my career at sea and don't have great illusions there.
One thing I never see people mention when they talk about ditching, especially when more than 2 miles from shore is the wind conditions. That makes all the difference in the world on your survival. You go into the GOM around there in June on a beautiful day and you won't spend more than a few minutes in the water before a field boat comes picks you up, heck, we had a Bell 206 pop floats and autorotate in right in front of me once. We had a crane onboard, I swung him a sling and snatched him on the deck; nobody got wet even.
However while tooling along loving that 30 kt tailwind, realize that the sea state is now one which is pretty unsurvivable for a ditching. 18-20 kts of wind will get you 2-4' seas, have fun ditching in that, 30kts is good for 8-10' seas.
Which way are you going to land in either or both? How could you use a boat/ship to best advantage? How are you going to get on the boat or climb onto the platform in 8' seas without getting killed? Getting into the water is just the beginning of the process.