DaleB
Final Approach
I hear ya barkin', big dog. I've also talked to a few local pilots who have been flying for many years, and still fly pretty much anywhere they go. South for the winter, north for the fishing, out to the sand hills to visit family. These old geezers still love to fly and they fly everywhere... sometimes in slower-than-mud Warriors and Yankees, and they still manage to get where they're going and back.That's the general theme of most newbs when they're still smitten with everything about aviation. OTOH, all the pilots who are leaving the activity or dramatically cutting back expressed all those same thoughts at one time in their career and aren't now nearly as ga-ga goo-goo about it.
What do you think might have happened along the way to alter their viewpoint? Wife didn't like it? Scared themselves once or twice? Cost was much greater than they anticipated and/or utility was much less? Nowhere to go other than hamburger runs? Perceived airplane capabilities proved to be much higher than actual? Fuel prices tripled? BTDT too many times?
I don't doubt the part I highlighted above -- but "all the pilots leaving or dramatically cutting back" seems to be a pretty poor sampling to depend on for advice. Every hobby, career or other activity has its complement of people who are burned out and leaving. For some odd reason they never do seem to be very encouraging. I see the same thing everywhere... IT careers, motorcycling, amateur radio, small business owners, parents, you name it.
I'm quite well aware that as a newbie, pond-scum pre-checkride proto-pilot I will tend to be a little more optimistic and enthusiastic than some. I do try to temper that with the advice from the grizzled and jaded veterans, but I do think the true answer lies somewhere in between.