Wow - I thought I might get 5 or 6 responses but over 40 in less than a day is amazing.
To clarify a few things :
Our desire for him to "earn" flight time is based on the fact we currently spend significant dollars already to support him other hobby/sports like snowboarding and wakeboarding. We are looking at possibly tranisitioning these camp/coaching dollars towards flight. The camps and programs are earned through continued excellence in school and overall just learning to be a good person. We are not looking for him to get a job at this point. Although a few more chores wouldn't be horrible
We have used all available websites to identify every flight school and airport within 90 miles of us. Ideally we would like to train at KSAC or in Davis but will not excude other farther options if we find the right situation. FLight schools we have emailed include Cal Aggie Flying Farmers, JetExe and Skywalk in Sacramento, and Bravo Mike.
We reached out to the local EAA organization in Sacramento several weeks ago but it looks like their website is no longer being monitored and emails have gone unanswered. It looks like they may not be in existence anymore.
http://www.eaa52.org/. I probably should look towards the bay area.
There is a local Civil Air Patrol near us. This is a program I am not familiar with. I will need to look in to it further.
Glider Training is also something I hadn't thought about. Although earlier solo opportunities make this interesting we are in no rush for him to solo anything at this point. I will need to learn more about gliders and how they work. Honestly flying without an engine seems a little crazy to me but obviously my perspective is one not based on experience or knowledge at this pint. It seems a little counterproductive to get training in gliders that wouldn't help him towards his ppl or sport license later unless I am missing something.
If anyone knows other parents of young pilots, young pilots themselves, or CFI's who have worked with young pilots I would love to talk to them.