Recently, I've been seriously considering finishing my PPL that I started about 10 years ago. It's always been a dream of mine to be a pilot but now, I'm at a crossroads where I just don't know how practical holding a license is anymore. I feel like I'm losing a grip on my dream to fly. Let me explain...
I've been an aviation enthusiast and airplane fanatic since I was 16. About 10 years ago as a senior in high school, I started working toward my PPL but only logged 12.1 hours before finances and time both ran short. During that time in my life, my priorities shifted and while I still loved airplanes, completing my training took a back seat. Time passed and while I entertained the idea of finishing my training several times over the ensuing years, I never took the leap. My logbook still shows those original 12.1 hours logged in 1998.
Now at 28, I can honestly say that I deeply regret my decision to not finish my training when I had the luxury of time and youth. I've managed to stay involved in aviation in one way or another over the years. Flight simulation and virtual air traffic control became my aviation "fix" and since my last logbook entry, I've logged close to 4,500 *simulated* hours (what some would call "a misspent youth!"). The flying bug has always been there though; it never really went away and even today I often find myself craning my head skyward at the sound of an engine above.
Last year, a new variable became part of my decision-making process when I married the woman of my dreams. Now, understand that I love my wife immensely and that she is an extremely understanding, supportive and incredibly loving person (and many years ago, logged 30+ hours of flight time herself). Recently, I expressed my desire to start PPL lessons again and explained to her that I would really like to finish what I started all of those years ago. Unfortunately the idea was met with significantly less enthusiasm than I had hoped. She expressed that she felt that flying recreational doesn't mix with being a responsible family man. In her opinion, by choosing to fly I'm risking my life and redirecting family resources in both time and money that could be better used 1) when we have children and 2) when we retire.
She adds that with the current state of the economy, the ever-increasing cost of flying, and ballooning fuel prices, recreational flying is just not practical anymore. Honestly, I share her concern in that respect. I see flying becoming more and more expensive and the fact that I already fight opposition to the idea makes me think that it is time to throw in the towel and give up on ever completing my PPL. For me, flying will never be a career both because I enjoy my quality of life now and have no desire to leave it for a shiny new regional jet and because I also know that my wife would not allow it.
So, my question is what next? Is becoming a recreational pilot in this "new economy" really worth it? Is there any end to the ever-increasing expense, or am I just misperceiving it? Can anyone who has faced similar opposition to flying from their mate before pass along any wisdom for me? Your help is much appreciated.