Well put. I own both a Mooney and a Bonanza and I'll take the Bo any day over the Mooney. They just fly nicer and the extra space is nice.
Then why in the world do you own a Mooney??
Sounds like a huge waste of money.
Yep, the Mooney controls are heavy and not as responsive as a Bonanza. I'd say that control feel on a Mooney is similar to that of a Cherokee, if that is something the OP has experience with.
And if the OP is thinking of getting the instrument rating and doing a lot of cross country flying, he will really appreciate the stability. The Mooney is made for one thing only pretty much, to go a distance either fast, or cheaply. People here have been saying Mooneys and meaning the 180-200 hp variety, but in fact the long body Mooneys they have been making for the last 25 years come with the same engines Bonanzas do. The combination of big engine in the Mooney airframe means = world's fastest certified, production piston single. Oh, and it has a very comparable usable load.
However, I consider the Mooney to be more of an ideal one to two person airplane and the Bonanza to be more of a family SUV. Yes, the Mooney has plenty of room in the back seats... once you actually get there. Getting in and out of a Mooney is the toughest of any plane I have ever flown. Some flexibility required. Some of my Mooney compatriots will probably come on here and tell how they travel with their families in their Mooneys all the time. I'm not saying it can't, or isn't done, just that if I were planning on flying a family around, I would likely choose another plane.
On the subject of other planes, if the OP is considering a Bonanza, he should also look at the C-210, the Commander 114, the Piper Saratoga, the Socata Trinidad and to make Geico happy, the Vans RV-10.
Each plane has design trade offs that may, or may not be appealing for different reasons. If the OP desires to stay in the 200 hp range for economy of operation, then the Mooney is tough to beat.