As the parent of a four year old, I do NOT blame you one bit. It's my job not to put my kid in a situation he isn't ready to for, and if he does slip up, it's my job to get him the hell out of there.I view this quite similarly to going out to dinner at an expensive restaurant only to be seated next to (or near) a table with a kid under 3 or 4. First I ask for a different table while being seated, if one isn't available I'll sit down, size up the situation, and at the first scream or outburst I walk out.