Right -- and I don't have the speed brake effect below 100 KIAS in an A36 and 100 MPH in the C205. Though I usually target 90 KIAS pattern entry speed in the Bo and 90 MPH in the 205.
In the Mooney I wanted to come in around 120 mph IAS. Gear and flaps were 120-125 mph, so that gave me the speed I wanted there. I'd generally fly the rest of the pattern around 100-110 mph, pulling back on final.
So it's really about airspeed management. I slow it down before entering the pattern or reaching FAF (unless asked to keep the speed up). Once I'm established at my pattern speed, I push prop full forward slowly and maintain attitude. Once abeam the numbers (when flying pattern) the flaps and gear come down (unless I used the gear to descend from far out -- which happens sometimes when arriving from the east IFR here, since we have 2000' AGL mins just east of here. CLE Ctr keeps me at 5k -- the airports I fly into are all ~1200' MSL).
It's the same drill at the FAF on an ILS -- gear plus flaps at 90 = ~450 FPM descent. And inch of two either way will adjust descent rate according to wind conditions.
Anyway, I have the habit of prop full forward once I'm slow enough to begin the landing sequence. I know it's not really eseential way out here since the only reason I need it full forward is in case of a go around.
But it's one of those things that is likley forgotten just at the wrong time, hasn't hurt much, and is done smoothly and is un-noticed by passengers.
Right, if you're getting slow enough and low enough power that you're off the governor, it won't be noticed by passengers, and that's fine. As for forgetting, in most of the planes it's really not a big problem. If sounds like you fly your patterns slower than I do. In the planes that I fly (well, these days "plane" singular), Vyse is 100 mph, so I don't want to get below that until I'm on final. Plus the controls start getting sloppy when it gets slower, it's just not as comfortable. Unless I need to go slowly for some reason, there's just not a good reason to. Plus to go that slow I either need to pull the power way back or put the flaps to full, which makes for a really draggy airframe and requires more power through the pattern. Once again, uncomfortable. Oh, and if I lose an engine with full flaps and gear down I will be unable to maintain altitude (tried it).
Comes down to flying your plane how it made sense to fly it and with what's comfortable. In the Mooney and Aztec, I was more comfortable with the extra speed. I've never flown a Bonanza. One day...
I really don't like hearing folks zoom into the pattern and do a sudden RPM change (you've heard it, too I'm sure if you're at any busy GA airport on a nice Saturday). Is it "wrong"? No -- but I like engines too much to enjoy hearing or seeing them mis-treated.
That's pretty much how I view any sudden changes with regards to throttle, prop, or mixture - I don't like them. Smooth is the key. Whether or not it actually is mistreating the engines can be debated (I avoid such debates entirely), but I don't care if it does or not - it's just a nicer flying experience to do them slowly. Let's take my flight to Canada on Friday - I made my RPM adjustments simultaneously on both props, taking probably 5 seconds to go from 2500 RPM to 2300 RPM. Did I need to go that slowly? Of course not. However the passengers didn't even notice as far as I could tell, and plus I kept both props in perfect sync during the transition. Nice.