poadeleted21
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Not sure why this is news.
My issue with this is the criminal aspect. I don't want anyone coming into my bedroom and telling me what to do and I'm sure you don't either. Both of these people are adults and that's where the law should stop IMO.
Whether or not she should be a teacher is between her and the district, but I suspect those days are over.
I love when people proclaim the moral high ground in a discussion. Cast any stones lately?
And if the story read "married male teacher gives beer and has sex with 18 year old female HS student", we would be OK with this?
I think not. This issue is power, not sex.
And if the story read "married male teacher gives beer and has sex with 18 year old female HS student", we would be OK with this?
I thought this was an interesting play on words given the context of the article:
School district officials have sacked Leiseth since the alleged incidents came to light
This issue is power, not sex.
I'm not so sure. She is a substitute teacher. Maybe things have changed, but I do not recall subs getting enough respect in high school to be able to influence students much IN class let alone outside of school.
This is about a seriously messed up young woman and two horny dudes.
Why wouldn't we? Consenting adults, compulsory education was finished, and if it's true that there was no direct student-teacher relationship, at most it'd a conflict of interest for their employer to deal with.
Put it another way- a college coed is dating a TA for a course they don't take. Who cares?
Well, except "yahoo news" isn't a major publication in my opinion.
BTW...if you google her name and look at the images you'll find that she's not hot. Cute face sure but from the neck down...not so much. Way too many donuts consumed in the teachers' lounge. I had far better taste than that when I was 18.
Now that I'm 54 though, sure, it'd work just fine even with the excess baggage!
And if the story read "married male teacher gives beer and has sex with 18 year old female HS student", we would be OK with this?
I think not. This issue is power, not sex.
That's my issue with it, as well. The teacher apparently is a slut who exercised poor judgment, but I don't believe that being a slut or having poor judgment should be a felonies.
In addition, according to her lawyer, she was not either of the young men's teacher, so there was no issue of their being in a subordinate position. She was a teacher, not their teacher.
As for the 2007 law in general, it's stupid. The only context I can think of wherein the superior / subordinate relationship is so rigidly enforced as to justify the absolute prohibition of consensual sex between adults would be in prison. The guards' power over inmates is sufficiently absolute that the prohibition makes sense in that context. (The military might be another, but we're talking about a state law.)
The irony is that if the legislators who enacted this law were held to the same standards, their legislative chambers would likely be empty.
I believe that idiotic laws like this partly result from our Calvinistic Puritan lineage, in which belief system all of humanity was permanently divided into two groups -- the elect and the damned -- long before they were ever born. In that sort of system where everyone is either good or evil, and there's no in-between, the "good" people need a constant source of "evil" people against who to measure themselves to be reassured of their own goodness.
That hypothesis helps explain things like the Salem witch trials, the Alien and Sedition Acts, the Red Scare, and the various internal "wars" we continue to wage against, for example, people who like to consume certain plants. The vestiges of Puritanism in the American psyche demand that there be evil people against whom the "good" people can measure themselves and be reassured of their goodness.
Simply stated, Puritanism needs villains. It needs them so much that it will create them, if necessary.
During times when real crime rates are high, villains are abundant. The vestiges of the insecure Puritan psyche can therefore calm itself by pounding its chest and clamoring for draconian laws and penalties against various behaviors, but which said behaviors are abhorrent enough that they at least deserve to be illegal.
When real crime rates are declining, however, and villains are not as abundant, it's harder for the ever-insecure Puritan psyche to find enough villains to damn to hell to satisfy our continual need for validation of our own goodness. And so we respond by criminalizing more and more behaviors in order to provide a sufficient stream of villains to validate our tenuous grasp on our own essential goodness.
On a more practical level, a low crime rate creates a very big problem for the Criminal Justice Industry, which needs to justify its ever-increasing budget and bloat in the face of fewer and fewer criminals who are being cooperative enough to commit real crimes. This shortage of criminals with respect to the size of the Industry threatens the livelihoods of its vast army of cops, lawyers, judges, bailiffs, clerks, probation and parole officers, prison guards, and others -- all of whose jobs and the advancement of their careers are perversely dependent on the criminals whose bodies they are paid to shuffle around in boxes both real and metaphorical.
Laws like this almost make me long for the days of my youth, when there was enough real crime that we didn't need to criminalize nonsense.
-Rich
They may be consenting adults, but one has power easily abused.
College is a different situation entirely. That is an ethical, not criminal, matter.
Fine. Fire the teacher, revoke her certificate but criminal charger are insane.I believe the issue of compulsory education being finished is the technical heart of the matter. As the saying goes, it ain't over till the paperwork is done.
As for direct student-teacher relationships, what if this had happened at the beginning of the term, and the male teacher had promised his female 18 yr old a good grade in his elective class, should she choose it next semester for a good performance now?
I don't think you can slice it so fine as to have different rules. A teacher is a teacher. Hands off the students until they are officially out of school.
They may be consenting adults, but one has power easily abused.
College is a different situation entirely. That is an ethical, not criminal, matter.
Fine. Fire the teacher, revoke her certificate but criminal charger are insane.
OK, then the law is insane. No shortage of stupid laws. In the past year you have probably violated scores of laws. We need many, many more jail cells for all these "criminals".The only way what they did would be a criminal thing is if there was a law making it illegal.
If what they did was illegal, then it was ILLEGAL. If anyone has a problem with that, then they need to work to change the law. Whether or not criminal charges are insane is irrelevant.
Can they log this as pic ?
I'd be ok with it. One of the girls in my class married a teacher about 1 week after graduation. Not one person so much as blinked about it. He's still teaching and they're still married. Of course we all grew up together and the age gap was similar to the one in the story.
There were shenanigans much "worse" than that.
I could go on for half an hour about all the crap that happened. From the PE teacher in middle school giving me chewing tobacco, to the arrangement I had with the shop teacher after i caught him boozing behind the build that I used to go smoke behind. I've been out with a sub teacher who bought me and others booze and had another get us beer at the bowling alley.
That's just what I was involved in.
And if the story read "married male teacher gives beer and has sex with 18 year old female HS student", we would be OK with this?
I think not. This issue is power, not sex.
No, that is your perception of it. The relationship may very well have been about sex.
I can assure you the beer didn't come first. D'OHI just want to know if she banged them first and then gave them beer, or if the beer came first?
Why is everyone always so hung up on who has sex with whom?
Isn't the broader point that the legislation is too broad if this situation is considered a sex crime?
Being home schooled makes it awkward.
Fine. Fire the teacher, revoke her certificate but criminal charger are insane.
My daughter is a newly minted high school teacher. According to her, one of the "very bad things" that you can do is get caught with a student in this kind of situation. Even if criminal charges aren't pursued, it pretty much means your entire teaching career is over.
So you think it is OK for a female teacher to have sex with her students?
Excellent question. This country is filled with far too many people who concern themselves with things that are none of their business, especially sex.Why is everyone always so hung up on who has sex with whom?
In many of the 'girl teacher with boy student' I see the teacher as more of a victim than the student. Of course, 17 year old boys will screw anything that moves or doesn't move, to fall back on one of them for entertainment suggests a pathologically low self esteem.
Why is everyone always so hung up on who has sex with whom?