I think my confusion was formed by discovery. The track course that atc finally arrives at was identical to the original vector time and time again. I flew the track instead of the heading a few times and noticed I was receiving far less adjustments, thus, taking a lot less atc bandwidth.
When atc says fly heading xxx direct to XXX vor, they don't want you to fly that heading, they want to you fly that track. If you fly that heading and end up 15 miles off of the vor, using the excuse "they told me to fly heading xxx" isn't going to magically lift you out of the mountain you flew into.
Simple vocabulary isn't the issue. I know what the different meanings are but ATC uses "heading" to describe most of them. I understand a good controller will take into account wind and should assign accordingly, and I NOW understand that flying the less efficient magnetic compass, taking up frequency bandwidth, is more important to the system then just doing what the controller wants.
I don't want to say there is a lot of misunderstanding in this post, but I don't know any other way to say it.
Heading is what you read off your Directional Gyro, or Heading Indicator. If your DG says 360, your nose is ointed at 360.
Track is the line you draw on the ground with your xxxxx foot long crayon pointed at the ground, connected to your airplane.
Radials are lines directly away from a fixed object. Flying a radial is not the same as your heading. It is more akin to track, but is leading to a central hub, not some arbitrary point in the sky.
When a pilot is assigned a heading, they fly the heading, not guessing where the controller is trying to vector you to and then inputting your own wind correction angle, and then have them wondering why the correct wind correction angle they gave you is making you off course of your intended ground track with their heading.
Vocabulary is important. Having the same definition of ground track, heading, and other stuff is important as well.
I don't know if it is abnormal, but I have never flown an aircraft with a non-slaved HSI. Maybe it is an old school thing, but all of mine have been slaved to a flux gate (not flux capacitor) in the rear of the airplane. They require no precession since the HSI is automatically updated in real time. A directional gyro on the other hand requires constant tuning and fixing and adjustments through a long flight.