Hey Kelly. I had to completely be honest about my past i.e., use, frequency, amount, etc. I also had to write a detailed novel/biography that stated what happened, why etc. Mostly what happened that lead me to rehab, consequences I suffered, loved ones I lost, bridges I burned...I had no secrets because my rehab records (which they needed) were not a secret. I disclosed everything...I had a DUI in the military, and an "under age drinking" arrest in my record. I had to explain both of those nights. I lost a baseball scholarship because of drugs. I had to come clean about all the **** I had done. I had 60 days to do that. I got a 40 day extension because I had a problem getting my rehab records.
Then I had to go see Dr. Rozanski and another psychiatrist ($7k). It was 3 days that tested all aspects of my mental, emotional and cognitive abilities. It sucked. But I got through it. I actually set a new record in one of the tests. Surprisingly, addicts are smart! Those docs wrote up their reports and then I was ready to set up my appointment with Dr. Brath--my HIMS doctor. I finally saw him and he did his thing. That included flights out to LA for all three visits. In total it took about 3-4 months to get all that out of the way.
It then went to Oklahoma City. That took 4-5 months. They then needed more info from my pyhchiatrist. He did a addendum and sent it out asap. Oklahoma had it for another 2-3 months before they sent it to Washington DC. Washington needed more info so that slowed things down. The holidays probably slowed it down a lot. That took another 1-2 months.
As of now, it's been seen by the Federal Air Surgeon and is waiting for HIS boss to sign off in it. And this is just to get a Special Issuiance.
1.5 years later and I'm still waiting. Patiently. Some days are harder than others.
But I refuse to give up! Nor should your son. Addicts are persistant and stubborn. I've done what I've needed to do. Moving forward is hard if all you want to do is fly. But I know that I'm right where I need to be and everything will happen as it's supposed to happen
And the $7K is a very very small price to pay in order to do the thing that I'm most passionate about. I have the flying bug and it's not going away. I'm sure your son feels the same way. My advice...keep instructing the ground portion of flying, get into a rehabilitation center, do what they say, and pray pray pray they let him fly. It's not a long shot. I'm living proof that it's possible. If they were going to say no, they would have said no already. Good luck again and contact me if you have more specific questions.