Yep
Also if you're VMC, the first thing out of that handheld would be to go 1200.
Not sure what you mean. If you mean call ATC and cancel IFR, I certainly would have done so if ATC could hear me, but they couldn't. Tried a couple of "any station receiving, please respond" calls, too, hoping someone could relay for me, but got no response from those either. Thus, I was forced to remain IFR. (If you literally meant squawk 1200 on the transponder, I don't think that's a legitimate way to terminate an IFR flight plan. Not sure how ATC would have reacted if I'd done that, but at the very least I bet I would have had a few more questions to answer with ATC after I was back on the ground.)
Might I suggest having your pax dig through your bags while YOU fly the plane BTW, why was your chart in a big flight bag, not on your knee or in the side pocket
Well, yes, I obviously considered asking my pax for help, but what I realized was that she was not familiar enough with my materials for me to tell her what to get me. The other obvious thing was to ask her to hold the bag on her lap to make it easier for me to search for the stuff I needed. A bigger problem that day was that she was already not feeling well, and so she was more concentrated on the sick sack in her hand than on exactly what I was doing.
As for why my charts were in my bag: You caught me--laziness. It's so rare that I need a paper chart any more that it's easy to just say, "Aw, they're right there two feet away in the bag, I can grab them on the off chance I need them. Why mess with pulling them out and putting them away every flight?" Well, now I know why.