There are situations where I'm glad the rest of the users don't share your same feelings. If you are landing at ORD for example, we routinely are shooting the IA to the middle runway and using visuals to the outboards. There are times when the final is pushed out to a point where you can't see the airport but EVERYONE is reporting the preceding aircraft in sight. We have to have you cleared for the visual prior to losing 1000ft with the parallel traffic. If you are getting close to that point and don't see the airport, you will be broken out and re-sequenced. It's not a penalty, it's required for the efficiency to the airport and for the company that writes your check. You are PIC of your bird and I'm not trying to suggest you give up your right, I'm just glad that most other jet drivers don't share your sentiment. If others are losing them 75% of the time, they aren't telling us that.