Two things:
1) My main concern when I'm washing is bugs. Bug guts on all the leading edges, and they're often dried to a crisp rock-hard form by the time I land. I've been using Turtle Wax "Bug and Tar Remover" but spraying that on the leading edges, letting it sit for a few minutes (I'll spray the whole wing and then come back to where I started to wipe, not long enough to let it dry out at all). This only gets about half of 'em, and that's with a fair amount of elbow grease thrown in. What'll eat the little buggers up without messing up the paint?
2) This, copied from the Mooney list:
So, what's the right product?