As somebody who doesn't even have a license yet, but am planning on going for it in the next year or so, and buying my own plane afterwards, I find this single vs twin argument interesting.
From my "outsider's" viewpoint, it's akin to a debate about politics or abortion. Neither side is going to change their viewpoint, no matter what kind of statistics are presented (and we all know about lies, damned lies, and statistics).
My future mission profiles will probably include a lot of mountain flying in the Rockies (airports around Denver, Eagle, Aspen, Bozeman, Yellowstone, etc), and religious debate be damned, I'd sure as hell feel a lot safer having a twin than a single when flying above the rocks, provided I keep my skills up to snuff with frequent training. I could easily imagine going for professional simulator training every six months and have them throw everything at me possible, and learn how to compensate.
It just seems to me that a PROFICIENT (emphasis on that word) pilot has more options, and is safer, in a twin than a single. If you're willing to maintain multi-engine proficiency, then twins are an option, otherwise, stay the hell out of them. Seems simple enough, but maybe there's more to it I'm unaware of yet.