> "Heck I woulnd't mind getting the Clarity Alofts for myself and then letting someone use my A20s."
That's what I would do. Except, I'd get Halos instead. It's easy enough to put a fresh pair of foam plugs on for squeamish passengers . . . they come with a bag full and if you ever exhausted those it's easy to order extras, or make your own.
I've read numerous times that those who have tried both the Clarity and the Halos prefer the latter . . . but this could be selective memory at work. I really like my Halos. The only problem with them . . . if it's still a problem . . . is that it's sometimes hard to get them in a timely fashion.