Jeanie, I don't know how to find it (when I search things stop and don't go back as far as I'd like) - but I had many CFI threads both here and on Student Pilot which might help you. Sure I listed what was wrong but it also made people tell stories of CFIs that were good. Let me see what I can find, send me a link to your new thread and I'll put the stuff in there.
I'm working on transitioning to helicopter. At the start of the last lesson, the instructor announced he just flew a demo flight with a guy who, without previous experience, hovered perfectly during his first hour. Now, here I am, hour 7, and I still haven't got a stable hover..... Well, that's another story.
I had 120 hours before I took my checkride. What isn't known in knowing that is I started at 38 with a growing family. I flew with different instructors, in CA, NV, NC, and MA, and spent 13 years at it. I soloed at 13 hours in a c152 but switched schools and airplanes PA28 soon after;having another solo milestone in a warrior. Afterwards, I often only flew 10 hours a year; just enough to look like a student, especially with solo trips to OWD. In '03, I challenged myself (and so did a friend) to finish up and that I did.
The biggest problem overall is all of the instructors presumed someone else covered some of the material. Just to reenforce this, on my prep ride (day before) for the checkride, the CFI called for a climbing left turn to a stall... Gee, I NEVER did that before.
Stats are great but they are clinical in nature. They do not tell the truth nor the story. You really have to understand what is going on.