...when they should be saying 'figuratively'.They’re good at using the word “literally” in literally every conversation…literally.
...when they should be saying 'figuratively'.They’re good at using the word “literally” in literally every conversation…literally.
Most use it incorrectly, too. It has become a word used to emphasize a point, not fitting the original definition and intent of the word. Personally, I mostly like to use cuss words to do my emphasizing!
Whether it’s figurative, hyperbole or informal, the over use of the word gives me a headache…in the literal sense.
Most use it incorrectly, too. It has become a word used to emphasize a point, not fitting the original definition and intent of the word.
Literally literally doesn't even mean literally any more. Literally.To be fair, some dictionaries now include the definition of literally that means figuratively. It got so bad we just accepted it, so it wouldn't be bad anymore.
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Well I'd say ****ing instead of literally, but they filter it out!Personally, I mostly like to use cuss words to do my emphasizing!
Unfortunately that is the world we're living in now. It's getting increasingly difficult to find parts to fix anything any more, and often if you want to be able to fix something it requires expensive specialized tools that only make sense if you're in business fixing that particular thing.The youth on a whole (80%), seem very disinterested in technical or mechanical things in my experience. These kids grew up with iPads and Xbox instead of building erector sets, model airplanes and tinkering with minibikes. I had an intern from Colorado School of mines (Engineering student) who when directed to install a 1U device in a server rack could not use a screw driver! He was really disinterested in learning how to use hand tools either.
You sound just like the people who used to bag on Gen X (aka, me) back in the day. It is no more true now than it is then for the most part.They have a completely different view on the world and have a very different work ethic than the older generations. The lesser educated youth (the ones who aren't landing a six figure job at graduation) are VERY APATHETIC to the world, because they feel that they're underpaid, underappreciated and "Can't afford to live".
I find it amazing that in 25 years we went from having people who worked at the grocery store stocking shelves wearing slacks, shirt & tie and conducting themselves with utmost professionalism and now they look like they just rolled out of bed. The "back in the day" service worker greeted customers with a smile, a "yes sir/ma'am" and did whatever they could to serve the customer. Where today they give you attitude like you're inconveniencing them.
There's a grocery chain up here in New England called Market Basket. Employees still wear ties and if you ask where something is they will stop what they are doing and take you there. Clean, reasonably priced a throwback we enjoy.I find it amazing that in 25 years we went from having people who worked at the grocery store stocking shelves wearing slacks, shirt & tie and conducting themselves with utmost professionalism and now they look like they just rolled out of bed. The "back in the day" service worker greeted customers with a smile, a "yes sir/ma'am" and did whatever they could to serve the customer. Where today they give you attitude like you're inconveniencing them.
Honestly? Yes. Apathy or hopelessness can be a response to unrealistic expectations. Let me tell the tale of my two adult children. One is about to turn 31, the other is 29.…. Can you really fault them for being a wee bit hopeless about life?
The exception is that apathy you're talking about, and it is, frankly, well deserved apathy. Let's take a look at how life has changed since 1984:
1984 1984 in 2024 $ 2024
Median Income $26,230 $79,739 $59,228
Median Home $79,900 $242,896 $412,300
Home/income 3.05 6.96
College Tuition (1yr) $2,344 $7,126 $9,750
Minimum Wage $3.35 $10.18 $7.25
Tuition/Min Wage 699.7 1344.8
So, whereas a home could be purchased for 3.05 years' salary in 1984, now it takes close to 7. And where you could work 13 hours a week and make money for tuition, now it's 26 hours a week (while you're going to school too...) That has resulted in an increase in student loans so that there's enough time to actually go to school, and today's graduates are starting their lives having to work their way out from under a mountain of debt before they take on another mountain of debt, all to see the spoils go to the richest Americans. Can you really fault them for being a wee bit hopeless about life?
Ah, the old "avocado toast" theory. Yes, they could have made some better decisions... But why did they make those decisions? FWIW, my wife wanted to be able to teach our kids someday, so we "needed" a house in her school district. Is there a possibility that you don't know all of their reasoning, motivation, or plans?Eight years on, the Aggie is still debt free, has 3+ months salary saved, and invests 15% gross income. Rents because he moves every few years. The Bobcat got married to another teacher, declared Austin is the only place they would live, and bought a flip’d early 70s house in the specific zip code they “had to live in”, at peak pricing because it’s what they “deserved”. Purchase price on that house was more than any house we’ve ever bought and we’ve built two semi-custom homes, the most recent being in 2017. They both work in the same school building, but won’t carpool because they don’t want their peers to think they’re broke. They could have found new construction in a different zip code for under $200K. I know this because I showed them the neighborhood.
There isn't a teacher in the US right now that isn't debating leaving. I'm married to a teacher, my MIL was a teacher, my FIL and grandmother were guidance counselors, my dad was a professor, and both of our families are full of teachers and have lots of teachers as friends.Those two finance their lifestyle with debt. They’re debating leaving teaching because it doesn’t pay enough for their lifestyle and they’re tired of working second jobs because total earnings aren’t enough to finance the life they “deserve”.
My wife gets *one week* of vacation more than I do per year, but she doesn't get to choose when to take it. (Xmas-new years, spring break, two weeks after school ends, one week after summer school ends before she's back at it for the next year.) She has to deal with a LOT of ornery people, and she makes less than half what I do even though her job is much more difficult and far more important to society.Both “deserve” a job with at least as much time off as they currently get (Summers off, fall, winter, and spring breaks) and pays senior wide body Captain salaries and has a a fully company funded defined benefit plan that would provide them more income in retirement that they would earn in their highest compensated year of work.
Random college students cannot make tuition on 12 hours a week any more. That is the point.while fed min wage might be $7.25 many states are far above that; and even in states without their own min wage most employers pay more than $7.25.
Median is median. Why would that only hold water in hot markets?The data point of the median home like I said only holds water in hot markets.
What is the median income in Schenectady? What is the cost of living?There's plenty of affordable homes out there for example here's a house in Schenectady NY for $175K https://www.redfin.com/NY/Schenectady/1762-Hamburg-St-12304/home/92660940 adjusted for inflation that's $61K of 1984 dollars.
This is THE best thing about modern life. Learning is so much easier than it was! But good luck getting a job without the piece of paper.FREE education via the internet (you can learn almost anything online Free but you're not getting a piece of paper eg https://ocw.mit.edu/),
Only if you have money to start with.you can make Stock Trades online yourself,
Please add aircraft AC technicians.The world could do with a few less teachers and a few more HVAC technicians.
At its core one child values the feeling they get from not having to worry about debt, the other values the feelings they get from doing things with their friends and doing things their social group considers “right” or “deserved” and debt isn’t something that should limit their life since it’s “so easy to come by.”..... But why did they make those decisions?….
... I find painting with broomsticks on complex issues such as generational stereotypes won’t give Picasso-esque results.
So, whereas a home could be purchased for 3.05 years' salary in 1984, now it takes close to 7.
Mortgage interest
1984: 13.87% 30 year fixed.
2024: 6.44% 30 year fixed
The median home being built today has the square footage and amenities that would have put it at the top of the market in 1984.
The measure for housing affordability is the percentage of income required to make a payment, not the raw price of the home. And to keep it apples to apples the comparison should be the 1984 starter home, not the median mc-mansion that defines the prices today.
I wish more 'starter-homes' were being built, but everything seems like a mansion now.
Builders have tried and ended up with unsold homes. Even first time buyers demand the space and amenities they are used to from their parents homes.
I wish more 'starter-homes' were being built, but everything seems like a mansion now.
I built my own.I wish more 'starter-homes' were being built, but everything seems like a mansion now.
Serious question. What defines a starter home for y’all?
ETA: actual specs/wants/needs
Ex: beds/baths/budget, etc.
My current house was the first one I bought. 1500 sq ft, 3 bedroom, 2 bath, detached 30X30 garage all on a 1.76 acre ranchette. I consider that a starter house.Serious question. What defines a starter home for y’all?
My current house was the first one I bought. 1500 sq ft, 3 bedroom, 2 bath, detached 30X30 garage all on a 1.76 acre ranchette. I consider that a starter house.
My 2nd house is 2000 sq ft, 4 bedroom, 3 bath, attached 2 car garage with a detached 15X20 storage unit plus a 18X36 2 story barn all on 3 acres. My wife and I will move into it when my mom no longer lives there.
Serious question. What defines a starter home for y’all?
ETA: actual specs/wants/needs
Ex: beds/baths/budget, etc.
2-3 bedrooms, 2 bath (1 master, 1 for rest of house). Basic kitchen appliances and cabinets. Car port or single garage. None of the upgraded trim stuff. Budget is of course location specific.
Nobody would buy it (in the new market).
Interesting report on both characteristics of home buyers and homes being bought. Doesn't support the 'millenials can't afford houses' trope. Millenials and older gen-Z are pretty much where you would think they are in the market.
Want to sell us your current house when you move out? It sounds perfect!
Unfortunately, you are right for the vast majority of people in mine and @2-Bit Speed's age range. I would love to buy the house described and spend the next ten or so years in it. We're renting a house that almost exactly matches that description (minus the garage), and would probably have offered to buy it except that the yard needs ~$75k in regrading and fill to prevent it from turning into a 8" deep lake every time it floods.2-3 bedrooms, 2 bath (1 master, 1 for rest of house). Basic kitchen appliances and cabinets. Car port or single garage. None of the upgraded trim stuff. Budget is of course location specific.
Nobody would buy it (in the new market).
Interesting report on both characteristics of home buyers and homes being bought. Doesn't support the 'millenials can't afford houses' trope. Millenials and older gen-Z are pretty much where you would think they are in the market.
We had a feral cat problem at our last apartment. It was so bad, two of them came into our house and decided to live with us.I guess I should tell ya, I have many feral cats on the property. They go through a 15 lb bag of dry food in about 3 weeks.
But I do not have a mouse problem.!!
I don't think anyone can build new construction anywhere in the US for $120K today outside of Habitat for Humanity or a barndo. I've actually helped build more than a few and there are some nice HfH opportunities out there if you qualify. There seems to be new construction for as low as $180K in the Jacksonville area, here's one. Townhomes are another option, otherwise that leaves the resale market.I think 3 bedrooms and 1 & 1/2 baths, though we could make do with two bedrooms. Budget? Under 150k. 120k would be nice.
There seems to be new construction for as low as $180K in the Jacksonville area, here's one.
Can't quite call that 'as low as' since it's well over my budget, but I appreciate the gesture.