There's a few more issues than what I have alluded to already but my mistake was going after a flying career with a butt load of debt i nthe first place. Most of my original debt is paid down but I also went to college the last 2.5 years and graduated in Dec. using GI BIll. But I have not been able to do any better than my part-time Fedex Express job so far. Has benefits but the hours are not good enough and no future to become full-time right now.
Most people make mistakes when hot about a career change or doing something "fun" like flying for a career. The trick is to replace the broken concrete, fill in the cracks, and make sure the rest of the sidewalk is paved correctly to continue walking on.
I agree I need to move and that is in the picture. Still a few other issues on top of all this.
Not downplaying what could be serious issues, but a lot of times the real issue is just going through with the task and committing to it. Sometimes people use thier pending "issues" as crutches, or excuses, for not moving on. I have a co-worker supervisor who could really kick a$$ in life if he just concentrated on himself and his needs and didn't constantly give away his money to charity cases like his loser brother and sister. I'm finding that he probably likes and craves the attention of always complaining and being the victim, and also has a neat packaged excuse for not moving forward with his own life, not having to risk dating, not having to risk getting a better job, etc.
And since I am almost 42 @ 580 hours TT, do I really have a future in aviation other than being a CFI the way age discrimination plays into everything?
At 42 years old it would be difficult for anyone to make a career change to anything. At 42, there is a certain expectation of compensation and lifestyle that a candidate is already used to, but a new company just won't provide. And companies love to hire younger because generally speaking, younger equals inexperienced, cheap, energetic, and more apt to conform to company policy.
My sister is a hiring specialist for a staffing agency and she is always telling me about these sad stories of guys over 35 trying for a mid-career change, gambling it all on a new degree, and getting nothing back in return except for intern slots or lower positions. At 35 myself, I have also come to the realization that people need to stick with one thing for it to be a success, no matter how boring or tedious it may seem. The older you get, the less likely a career change will be successfull (depending on how you view success, of course).
I got into coax cable design for a cable company as a newbie 4 years ago (coming from 1 year as a full-time CFI job) and even though I HATED the job, it's got me out of my hovel, bought us a nice house, and opened up many opportunities that aviation never would have in a million years. I started at $14 an hour 4 years ago, I also continued to work as a CFI on the side, but I had so little work and it was so sporadic, that it never paid off. Once I shed the weight of that CFI gig and began to really sell myself in the cable industry, things really took off. I now just got hired with a major online company at 80k per year. Just by jumping through the right hoops and being patient. Had I continued with a position in Aviation, I'd be working at a regional, making $25k a year right now. No house, away from home, etc.
About location... I was looking to move back to Idaho 3 years ago, as I had enough of this dreary weather up here in Seattle. Had I done that, moved from a place with good jobs to a place with hardly any good jobs at all, I'd be screwed right now.
Another thing related to getting back into aviation... If I were to get back in right now, even with my 2000 hours (most in 172's and 182's), tons of IFR actual, mountain flying experience, etc, I'd have to begin at a cr a ppy regional making peanuts again, co-habitating with 6 other guys in a cramped apartment, while my wife and kids back home wonder if we'll make the motgage payment this month and have to choose between Kraft and the generic mac n cheese to eat.
Here locally I have seen a commercial power washing job that pays $600 a week plus benefits advertised. Sounds good, but I really don't want to do that the rest of my life either.
Nothing says you do, but it would be a major upgrade from a part-time fed ex job. ALWAYS trade up. I would sell everything I could that has no utilitarian use in my life, and downgrade my residence if I could. I would take it as part of a plan to pay of all debt and take care of all other outstanding "issues". Then afterwards I would have a choice: Do I move to where the CFI jobs are, and resign to probably only getting a regional job as the highest realistic position in the future? Or do I evaluate my other skills and see what else I can do that is marketable and move to where that industry is?
The choice is yours, but one thing is for sure, not doing anything will yield the same result next year, and the next, and the next, etc...
Best of luck!