I think you missed my point. The MU2 has been certified (essentially twice even) and is by definition considered safe. It is not surprising there are lots of supporting opinions about it... it is fast, efficient, and reliable. It is safe if the pilots are trained.
On the contrary, there seem to be a lot more articles or anecdotes about how the LIV is NOT safe. It is fast, but many of the accidents are due to systems issues so I don't believe you can call it reliable. It does suffer from variable builder quality, especially if modified from original design specs, but the fact remains that many have crashed due to fuel issues, or other powerplant issues. It has a very high stall speed, poor glide ratio, and very poor stall behavior. That means at best, if you lose the engine and have a forced landing you'll likely be carrying 85+ knots and perhaps 1000 fpm or more down. Compare that to ANY certified single engine plane and it will stand out as less-survivable.
Whether or not lots of military pilots successfully flew F104s or other difficult airplanes is moot... lots did, but quite a few died too. They were not certified to CAR/FAR requirements. Apples and oranges compared to a civilian owner-flown XC airplane.