I love this thread.
Describe the routine after the last flight of the day. Everybody hang together, or the flight attendants leave the pilots?
Expected that everybody eats together, or does everybody go their own separate way?
What level of hotels are you guys staying at?
We are paired as a crew for a four-day trip, generally. I'm still new but most of the time at least the Captain is up for hanging together, and about half the time the Flight Attendant may join us. It seems like the more "seasoned" the FA the less likely she hangs out with us. They are what we term "Slam-Clickers"...their room door slams shut, the lock clicks and you don't see or hear from them until report time the next day.
Last week, we had a sweet, young FA that started a month or so before me. She had scoped out a range of activities and basically served as our activities coordinator! We hiked, hit a beach (complete with picnic) and hit some tourist shops all as a complete crew. It was great!
This week I'm traveling with a pair of slam-clickers. Both are great to fly with, but no interaction from getting our room keys until report time!
As for hotels, for the most part they are better than average....Hyatts, Hiltons, some HI Express. There's really only one slightly sketchy one so far that's used on a short overnight. But in its defense, it has a great restaurant with discounted food for crews and $1 beers! The long overnight hotel in that city is a very nice Hyatt, but with no other benefits.
The Hilton in FWA has an awesome complimentary breakfast buffet. Others just offer a discount on food.
I'm still learning the social ropes, so make a point of inviting fellow crew to join me, but don't push it.