I almost hate to keep this thread going - Even though the information was quite good.
Capt' Ron - great job - you definitely know your stuff - hope to meet up with you someday.
I don't collect money for flights - I fly because I enjoy it, and take others because I enjoy it, and believe they will too.
I am often offered money for flights, to which I bring up the shared expences rule, but again still do not take any money.
I do have a question regardingthis however, and I understand my interppretation means little or NOTHING, and that the FAA will take whatever action it feels like taking on that particular day (this has been proven time and time through the legal rulings handed out by the FAA)
But,
My destination is almost always the air. I want to fly to get that burger? No, I could have done that here, or at home, or McDonalds. My trip entails me going to the airport, preparing the aircraft and heading up into the wild blue yonder. Where I land is merely a consquence (not that I haven't decided before I left)
If I were to take a friend flying, their destination is likely the air as well. I choose to go to this place for Italian food, or that place for the burger, but our trip (the one we mutually wanted to take) was up into the air. For that trip I feel I could rightly share the expenses of the flight in accordance with the regulations.
I would feel confident in my beliefs should I ever be tested by the FAA, and would stand proudly as they likely told me I was incorrect in doing so. But I would still believe I was right (without my license of course) and would defend my beliefs.
So, I still don't share the expenses of flight, but I do believe I would be just in doing so.
Very lastly, I don't think the FAA really intended for this to be so difficult. I believe they are honestly fine with you sharing the expenses with your buddy or a friend. It's the stranger, or remote friend that you share expenses with that raises concerns and rightfully so.