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Mental illness also has a number of exacerbating features. Depression often includes the symptom of pushing away people who want to help. (That's also a feature of many forms of emotional trauma.) Treatment results are hard to measure, unlike infections, cancer, and broken legs. Some forms are self-reinforcing when treated, such as bipolar people who take mood stabilizing medication but stop taking it when they are feeling happy, which leads to a deeper instability on the next southward swing.Mental illness runs deep and unfortunately sometimes doesn't surface until it is too late.
We also stigmatize mental illness in many ways, even as we move past all the old stigmas about mental illness just being a weakness or even a choice. It's depressing to be around depressed people. Having a diagnosis for mental illness can hurt your career, social life, etc. Many, if not most, people dream of having a successful career and a smiling family. But if you're diagnosed as being schizophrenic, bipolar, or depressed, your perception is likely to be that your career options are limited and nobody will want to start a family with you.
So instead of seeking a diagnosis for your symptoms and a treatment for your illness like you would with an infection, cancer, or broken leg, people try to ignore or suppress their problems. And in many cases, they do so very convincingly for a very long time. And then they have a bad break-up, a career setback, or just a string of slightly gloomier than usual days, and their life is lost. Maybe it's lost to a quick end like happened this week, or maybe it's lost in a slower method like drug addiction or recklessness like drunk driving.
I hate all the social media posts that say things like "it's suicide prevention day, so don't forget to tell your friends not to commit suicide today!" This childish view of why people take their own lives does absolutely nothing to help anyone. It's at least as bad as people posting dirty jokes to fight cancer, and probably worse since nobody's cancer gets worse from reading about cancer awareness month and feeling like their friends and family don't really understand cancer.