Yeah but Yingxia, my China born Chinese wife of nearly 15 years who took to calling herself Veronica several years ago, knows that she isn't a male. And I thankfully can confirm that fact.
She by the way is fluent in Mandarin, Cantonese and English. I meanwhile still struggle with English and embarrassingly after these 15 years of marital bliss know just a little Chinese. However I do know the words for he, she, them, theirs, you, your, me, mine, etc. I can also order a beer and most importantly I can tell my mother-in-law that her food tastes good. But I am always willing to listen to those with more knowledge on China and Chinese for I admittedly have not learned as much as I should have. Something I also failed to do with Korean during my 16 year marriage to my Korean first wife.
Thank you for the lesson on Asia.