Jimmy cooper
En-Route
Not sure in what context your military cadet comment is about, but in flight training pushing someone to a breaking point is negative training and entirely inappropriate in aviation training.
Airline training is a systematic approach using CRM and ADM as well as Risk Management. System and Procedures knowledge with high standardization will get a competent crew through most any abnormal or emergency situation.
One of the huge problems in Asia with their training is CRM is non-existant, systems knowledge is lacking and they simply don't teach ADM or RM. The "Instructors" love to play "pile it on till they break" in the sim, and never actually teach anything.
Not sure? probably why only a certain percentage make it and get their wings. Been this way for many many years. The military does this to try and weed out the Colgan types but are not always successful. It's also why airlines used to try and have a majority of their pilots be ex military. Better trained in most instances and better OJT. not to mention that the current military pilot usually has a better education before he or she ever starts training.