If you don't mind a few questions:
How old are you?
How much education have you completed?
How much flight training have you completed?
If aviation wasn't for you, what education (degree) would interest you most?
Would your ideal aviation career be a pilot?
Is your reason to be in aviation for the travel?
Do you have any out of the ordinary medical conditions (might prevent you from flying)?
My wife has several thousand hours and could probably go back right now and be making some great money in the coming years. We've talked about it and she doesn't want to be gone from our daughter (10yrs old) that much.
I asked her how much she would be gone? Something like gone for 3-4 days and then off about the same. It would be like that for several years I think and then seniority would allow being more selective and getting better holidays off, etc. Active airline pilots here on the forum can tell you more.
One of her friends (has ATP) has twins and switched over to working for the FAA. I would think if your kids are high school age it could be a bit easier to be away.
The previous advice is spot on. You don't know when you'll meet your hubby, maybe you won't have kids. Heck the woman who just landed the single engine Southwest Flight flew off carriers and is a mom. Clearly she didn't let early thoughts of family keep her from doing what she wanted
Maybe you should visit a larger, active FBO and see what all careers are going on behind the scenes like the financial, training, maintenance and sales roles.
There still aren't that many women in aviation so get in there