Except Kimberly expressed a prefence for NOT dating pilots.
I did try dating a pilot or two in 2013.
Sure enough, I'm still single.
Oh and some SIC who flew for regionals just flaked on a meeting after we'd been trying to hang out for a month.
In general, I try to avoid dating pilots. I am now on the board of directors in an aviation related activity that I participate in, so I'm more "involved" in aviation now than ever, but . . . . I don't know.
As heavily steeped as I am in the world of aviation (hell I just attended a 30-pilot all weekend IFR seminar)...... you would think, by now, I'd have met a single young male pilot.
It seems as though they don't exist.
Nice to meet you phantasy and I'm sorry I'm quite far from Southern California.
My advice to you would be EAA, WINGS, Flight Schools (with parties), etc. Just get out there and socialize.