I probably should not share this on a public forum but I honestly could care less as nobody is after me
We use an "early warning system". I own a very small, cheap condo - this condo is my "home" all my mail, drivers license, FAA stuff all goes here. I have it mortgaged. I have a bank account with a couple hundred cash. If anyone comes after me they will do a search of my name and find the bank and house. Now once they ping that - we KNOW they are after us. (who is they? No idea, it's hypothetical)
My house in which I reside is owned free and clear. It's under Florida Land Trust and my name is not on ANYTHING. NO bills, no mortgages, no NOTHING. the only way you know I live here is if you come visit or see me here. I worked really hard to pay off my property and I protect it. And even if you proved I lived here you could NEVER prove I owned it. Just read up on Florida Land Trusts.
See this is where friends and family say "oh your paranoid" or "if you do nothing wrong you don't have to worry about it". All good points. But I was wrongfully sued back in 2001. I lost. I lost a TON of money in legal fees (over 30K). I ended up settling to make it go away as it was the cheapest way to go. At the end of the day I was out about 80 grand. To some of you guys that may be a drop in the bucket. To me I was hurting!!
Was I paranoid? NOPE. DId I do something wrong? NOPE. But somebody THOUGHT I did and they sued. So if your attitude is that of "you dont do anything wrong, blah blah". That's fine thats your choice. But god forbid you get yourself in a jam or someone accuses you of something, you risk losing the assets you worked for.
I am shaking just talking about this because it conjures up so much anger and hatred. I guess I'm still not over it. But I promise it will never happen again.